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blazed it
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Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Beijing
Should i tell my friend whats on my mind?

Ok so here's the scenario. In my circle of friends there are very few girls that come to chill with us. I'm not saying that I personally don't know any girls but just not enough that come over to hang out with. I've been discussing this with friend of mine and we have pin pointed the reason why there is not more girls that hang out with us. The reason is that there is this one guy in the group, who is a great friend of ours, but he's got some bad people skills.

By bad people skills i mean that, if there is even a decent looking chick that starts hanging out with us, he immediately starts to pounce on them and tries to make a move. This guys thinks he has some serious game going on, however everytime he does this he fails spectacularly and crashes and burns i.e. never ever ever succeeded. Now this is funny and sad, but mostly it is annoying because it makes it awkward for the girl, because if she wants to hang out with us this guy is here and the situation becomes all awkward because he made a move on them.

After i started on this train of thought several girls that i know agreed and said they saw that a mile away. I'm thinking about just telling him straigt up that this nonsense of hitting up on every girl has got to stop.

What do you guys think? should i just tell?


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Old Post Oct-26-2003 18:52  China
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Ripped Bag
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Registered: Jun 2001
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Deffinately.

But if you value his friendship try not be easy on em. Be blunt..

Its better in the long run

Old Post Oct-26-2003 18:57  United States
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JayD
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Registered: Dec 2000
Location: M.I.A.M.I.

Agreed. Be blunt and tell him whats going on. It wont hurt him.

Just explain nicely why and tell him in the future that it would be better for him too.

JaY


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Boomer187
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Registered: Aug 2001
Location: USA

yeah my friend did that a lot last year. I would be hanging out with tons o girls, he would try to make a move and it would go sour evreytime and soon I am forced to go out and get new girls to hang out with. It really sucks that he is burning bridges for me too.

Yeah I told him bluntly and he worked on it. Now he will ask me if its cool to try. Which is cool, I still let him pounce on a couple, but not the cool ones.

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Beat_Chemist
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: Seattle

I know people like that and its no big deal, he obviously has a pair, and he's used to hearing bullshit. (since he gets shot down left and right) So he's prolly developed a callous to anything that he might not wanna hear. SO you have to make sure and cut through the icky thing. Use cold stern words like, "Look, this bitch is coming over, I'm gunna try and fuck the cowboy grits out of her, So you'd better not be E-tarded and fuck this up for me by being a cock block."
If you have never approached this guy b4 or let im know about your dissapointment then he'll prolly say somehting onlong the lines of
"what? Who put sand in your vagina?" cuz he prolly is using your ass because you let him get out of control, U know how really "cool" (in this case he thinks he is) guys sometimes hang out with really quiet ones. Its so he feels he has suport from his boys, but at the same time he knows theywill never make a move themselves so all the pussy that runs by you is his for the taking. (this might not very well be the case but its a pretty good hypothesis i think)

Then you look over at your cooler buddy and put out your masterbating hand, at which point he places some baby/talcom powder on your palms and you BITCH SLAP THE STOOPID OUT OF THAT GUY!!!

At which point he'll thank you and be this really smart suave intellectual.

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mikefasssy
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Registered: Mar 2002
Location: Vancouver

just be blunt. I've had a similiar experience and me and a buddy just approached him and we basically said to cool the fuck down, and that was the end of that.


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Az
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Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Walking to John O'Groats for some spastics

cut him

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blazed it
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Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Beijing

quote:
Originally posted by Beat_Chemist
I know people like that and its no big deal, he obviously has a pair, and he's used to hearing bullshit. (since he gets shot down left and right) So he's prolly developed a callous to anything that he might not wanna hear. SO you have to make sure and cut through the icky thing. Use cold stern words like, "Look, this bitch is coming over, I'm gunna try and fuck the cowboy grits out of her, So you'd better not be E-tarded and fuck this up for me by being a cock block."
If you have never approached this guy b4 or let im know about your dissapointment then he'll prolly say somehting onlong the lines of
"what? Who put sand in your vagina?" cuz he prolly is using your ass because you let him get out of control, U know how really "cool" (in this case he thinks he is) guys sometimes hang out with really quiet ones. Its so he feels he has suport from his boys, but at the same time he knows theywill never make a move themselves so all the pussy that runs by you is his for the taking. (this might not very well be the case but its a pretty good hypothesis i think)

Then you look over at your cooler buddy and put out your masterbating hand, at which point he places some baby/talcom powder on your palms and you BITCH SLAP THE STOOPID OUT OF THAT GUY!!!

At which point he'll thank you and be this really smart suave intellectual.



yeah he thinks he's quite the intellectual. however he is definitly not the cooler guy in the group.


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Old Post Oct-26-2003 21:10  China
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Registered: Sep 2003
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quote:
Originally posted by Beat_Chemist
Use cold stern words like, "Look, this bitch is coming over, I'm gunna try and fuck the cowboy grits out of her, So you'd better not be E-tarded and fuck this up for me by being a cock block."


Um...just curious.

I thought Blazed is a girl?

Not that it really pertains to the problem at hand.

Anyway, I think talk to him in a non-confrontational manner and place. Don't embarrass him or anything. He probably has no idea....

Old Post Oct-26-2003 22:21  Denmark
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UWM
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Registered: Mar 2001
Location: Here

Tell him he's an in-your-face-cock-block and his antics must cease immediately or he will be banned from your group of friends.

Or just buy him prostitutes so he doesn't have to game on girls.

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torontotrance
I hath returned



Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Toronto

kick his worthless ass

I don't see why friends can't be nice to their friends and not get trashed around the house when the other buddy is trying to score with some chick. Have some decency ffs.

Old Post Oct-26-2003 22:31  Canada
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trancEyes22
but then there's you..



Registered: Feb 2003
Location: district of corruption

why dont you just not hang out with him when you are chillin with girls...make it known to the girls that the weirdo is gonna be there and then im sure they will want to hang more.

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