Registered: Mar 2001
Location: Nashville TN, USA orig. Moscow, Russia
Social Anxiety
Any of you have it? If so, what do you do to calm down and make it go away
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Feb-24-2004 10:49
andy
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: May 2002
Location: LEEDS UK
hmmmmm i have social phobia... there is nothin u can do to make the anxiety go away... except face the fear
Feb-24-2004 11:07
FuzzE
tranceaddict in training
Registered: Apr 2003
Location:
They have presrcibed medication for that, but you get the impression that doesn't quite solve the problem.
Some might see this as a silly suggestion, but its a suggestion nonetheless:
Smoke weed. Start off by yourself so you're not attacked by paranoia when you're around other people. When you begin getting use to it you'll find yourself a much more chill person. Your personality changes and certain things appear less inconsequential. Subsequently, when or if you start kicking it with other stoners your anxiety may significantly diminish.
Mind you this can have the completely opposite affect and may worsen your phobia. But who knows eh?
Feb-24-2004 11:32
Flec
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Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Toronto,Canada
my friend gets crazy panik attacks when he smokes weed.... not always the answer
see a doctor asap they can try and treat you with different medications or with different mental ways to beat the attacks such as these cards that you read that help you get over the attack
Feb-24-2004 14:10
igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs
Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future
Re: Social Anxiety
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Originally posted by CKYTEP
Any of you have it? If so, what do you do to calm down and make it go away
I have borderline case, I dont get panic attacks and interact with ppl normally, but i get very nervous speaking in front of large groups of strangers. Since I was thinking of becoming a teacher, I went to therapist to see if there was something I could do to overcome my fears. Depending how severe your symptoms, he will perscribe you the appropriate medication. Then gradually you put your self into situations that you find uncomfortable until you become desensitized and realise your fears are irrational. BTW, you can find plenty of into online. Good luck.
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Feb-24-2004 15:54
Boomer187
Spicy Hotdog
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: USA
one way to get rid of it is like so...
1. Learn to relax, deep breathing, pleasant thinking...anyway you can, just learn some relaxation.
2. start off small, go into some social situations that cause the smallest anxiety. Then remember your relaxation techniques.
3. slowly get into more and more anxiety provoking situations....always remembering your relaxation.
after a few months you'll be cured.
Feb-24-2004 16:09
Floorfiller
Girl + Sweater = Hotness
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: Illegal Pete's
if your social anxiety involves women...just get laid a lot and then you'll be cured...you'll have more confidence hehehe...
Feb-24-2004 16:17
Slylee
love lockdown
Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL
it's all in your mind...life is too short to have such a horrible condition and hide behind it...go see a doc and build your confidence.
the weed tip might help but it could also backfire...i was close to someone who had it and i got him to smoke weed...it totally cured him of it.
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Feb-24-2004 17:59
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
i guess reinforcing your self-esteem could help; trying to not give a damn about what others think; controlling your emotions and knowing yourself...
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Feb-24-2004 18:08
Floorfiller
Girl + Sweater = Hotness
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: Illegal Pete's
what about this...its kinda related...
i'm a jealous bastard. how do i stop from being so damn jealous of shit?
Feb-24-2004 18:09
Slylee
love lockdown
Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL
depends on what you get jealous about and how you deal with it.
usually the root of jealousy is insecurity (which we all have), but a lot of the times too, it's about respect, if you're a principled person like myself. usually lack of trust is a part of it all too.
like for instance, if a girl is checking out my boyfriend...ok fine. he's hot, i understand that and i know he's mine. if she starts acting on it, then her face gets rearranged.
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Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone