Registered: Nov 2003
Location: The Edge of a Cliff
Lady Problems !!HELP!!
Ok, this is the deal, there's this girl that I really like and she was in my classes both semesters this year and there was some flirting going on but I was never sure enough that she likes me and I never wanted to risk it, because I know that if I tell her and it turns out that she doesn't like me then we wont even be friends and it'll be all awkward talking to her. Well the second semester she kind of started playing hard to get but I don't know for sure. So I'm like pretty much in love with her and I don't know whether I should just tell her the whole truth and be real with her or try to go on a date or something with her or hang out with her and her friends etc. but I just don't know what to tell her or how to go about it. So I ask everybody out there to help me out, please, with this situation and give me some advice or how to go about this , please!
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Why must I walk this wicked path?
Jun-09-2004 08:57
twisted
happy technomad
Registered: Apr 2004
Location:
YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE! HOW INCONSIDERATE COULD YOU BE!? I HOPE YOU ROT IN HELL BASTARD!
just hope what ever you do that she doesnt say something around those lines
EDIT: i put a smiley just in case you thought i was directing those words to you.
go for it man...just tell her you like her. Whats the worse that can happen? if it goes all awkward then just keep your eyes open for other birds. If you dont then all your gonna is look back and regret that you didn't tell her and your never know what would of happened.
Jun-09-2004 12:28
DJ E-s*it
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2002
Location: LATA#23
have u read the ladderthoery??? u are either on the "friend" ladder or the "BF" ladder. talk more with her and watch her attitude when she talks to u .. if u can make her laugh most of the time, she likes u . if not then u r outta luck
i dont think you should tell her the whole truth just yet.
if you tell her you love her, you might scare her alil.
do you talk to her at all?
is she single?
Jun-09-2004 12:53
Trance Nutter
........... I got nothing
Registered: Aug 2002
Location: Adelaide, Australia
Dude, go for it.
Don't do what I have done many times and miss your opportunities. Grab it with both hands, or else you will never know. That is a much worse feeling than a rejection.
If you're friends or whatever, if you make a play (don't overdo it) and it doesn't work, chances are she will say something like "You're a nice guy and all, but lets just be firends."
As one of my mates says, those who procrastinate masturbate.
Honestly mate, just do it, but try not to do it in front of anyone else in case it doesn't work. You are 95% assured she won't tell you to go stick it.
Jun-09-2004 12:55
R.j.
Di piú! di piú! di piú!
Registered: Feb 2004
Location: L, TX, USA
ok ok maybe i can offer you some help:
option 1: tell her everything in a note (IF YOU ARE 100% not willing to tell her in person)
option 2: tell her everything in person (make sure to tell her that you are NOT obessed; so she wont think ur a stalker or some shit.)
option 3: go on a small date (movies, dinner) if u go to the movies dont bother telling her n e thing during the movie, do it after. and tell her during dinner.
hahah i dunno ive done that a couple of times it works. (but i wasnt in love )
Lady Problems !!HELP!!
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