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| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
This has happened to me too.
You think you're being the nice guy........NEVER leading the girl on, cuz why....you can get the piece of ass anywayz lol
You tell her your exact intentions.... she agrees
meanwhile people see that yer hanging out with her. they think "oh he's with her"
then later in a week/month they see you with another person........
that girl you were with might even talk shit cuz she started to like you. Girls tend to fall quickly once you get intimate with them.
In addition- all the other girls are thinking "hmmmmmmm..... he was with her, and her....he might have something"
they see you as the nice guy cuz you're just being yourself, telling her your EXACT intentions, they think "oh maybe i can change him, or see what he's all about without getting close"
meh- then the whole process continues lol
You're not a man-whore cuz man-whores fuck anyone.
You're not a slut, you're just a guy with sexual drive.
You're not an asshole about it cuz you say exactly whats up.
Being a womaniz0r.....it's not so bad, but its mainly based on the perceptions of other people, which- you shouldn't care about.
fuck the rep. |
I know what you mean. I never have more than 1 person at a time, though - too much risk and all that shit (health reasons). It usually just fizzles out after a month or two.
The reason I would like to lose the rep is I really don't like attacting the kind of girls that usually go for womanizers (maybe a bad generalization) - I like the wholesome, sweet girls that usually appreciate the "Nice Guy" (since I'm bad at being an asshole currently).
Points taken, however. Maybe I can deal with it.
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