One, two, three....Thats the total amount of times Ive pussied out of asking a girl out in the last 24 hours.

Last night, I went to see a girl I used to work with whom I had a bit of a crush on (you may remember the thread). After talking to her for a few minutes I gave her my cell, but I felt like a bit of a knob asking for hers, so I just decided to go.

Today in class, I was sitting behind this cute girl, and she turned around to talk and smile at me a few times. During class, I thought, 'ok, I can ask this girl out'. Class ends and Im a bit nervous. I grab my things, and look to her, but she isn't quite ready to go. My plan was to walk out of the building with her, and maybe ask her for a coffee as we got outside, but I deicded to just say fuck it, and left.

Just now at work, this cute girl was here. When she came in, we talked a bit about her writing and then I let her get to work. Knowing she would only be in for a half an hour, I thought, maybe I could invite her out after her seminar (the reason her stay in the lab was only 30 minutes). She got up to leave, and I just felt like I couldn't say anything.


So what's my deal? I'm not gay (or if I am, I've never met a male I'm attracted to), and I really want to ask these girls out. But I just feel akward doing it. I feel unable to do it in front of ANY people, and often I feel like I'm imposing on them, or making unwanted advances. Is it lack of self-confidence? I dont quite feel datable, as I dont really have any nice none music/computer related things and Im rather poor.

Im starting to think I should just jump aboard the asexuality bandwagon, if only to avoid the self-loathing and shame I feel after events like the 3 described here.

u just passed up a chance with your future fuck buddy, girlfriend, and mistress



LOSER!!!

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maybe it's a built in self-defence mechanism, because you're ugly.

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Originally posted by BTG maybe it's a built in self-defence mechanism, because you're ugly.

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Originally posted by BTG maybe it's a built in self-defence mechanism, because you're ugly.

sad but true

What did I tell you??

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Hey my boy! Git your roll on. Put on your Air Force 1s and get to stuntin'. Don't be scurred coz you gots it goin' on playa. Hit 'em up yo.

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Originally posted by Streakfury What did I tell you??

i hate all of you

get with the sexin' already damn it!!

I used to worry about dying alone when I was your age, but then I...crap.

Whenever I start to worry about how I've fucked up in school, and in life, I just think about robots.

God.

Then I think hey in the future rich people will be able to buy humanoid bodies for themselves. Then it brings me back to realizing that I've fucked up and am never going to have that kind of money.

Anyways, think about robots.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller get with the sexin' already damn it!!

I done been tryin' to tell this playa. But he ain't tryin' to hear me dawg.

Yo tribu, you gotsta be confident meh dawg.

Lol.

But seriously, you're not a pussy you're just intimidated. You just gotta break the wall and the only way to do it is to actually talk to which ever girl you want to talk to. I'm cheering for you homie.

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It's not like it was always like this. When I was in high school, I was majorly outgoing, had no problem talking to girls, and was able to pretty much date who i wanted. Im not sure what changed, but sometime between my first or second year in college, everything blew up in my face and I hit a major wall. I cant really identify any one major event or self-realization, but everything changed, and I cant seem to act like I used to.

It's really annoying, and incredibly self-destructive, at best