heheh, i see your point

But speaking from the point of view of the mean boyfriend (which i get labeled a lot), maybe the guy was having a bad night? Maybe he got fired that day at work, and his girl was trying to take him out to make him have fun, and he wasn't "in the mood"? Maybe the guy can't dance and he's very self-concious about it? I actually read that in a club magazine a year ago.. that 90% of guys ages 21-26 who don't go to clubs said they didn't b/c they "can't dance", and would feel like an idiot just standing there all night.

He may have been ugly but maybe there's a lot to his personality that makes him a winner. This means that the girl must be so NOT shallow, and see the guy for who he is. If at all, we should applaud the girl for being with a guy, not for his looks but for who he is.

I am not down with him hitting her, though. That's messed up.

But otherwise...... hmmm. yeah, ok. Sorry to hear anyways. Better luck next time.

-ABT-

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ive seem too many of the real nice and pretty girls, who are great people take up with total asses too many times, its heartbreaking

Maybe her boyfriend was jealous of her cos she was dancing or something else,thats why he was very angry or he had a bad day and he just stayed there.
And women arent all the same,if i was that girl i wouldnt stay with that kind of boyfriend+ he was ugly and he behaved like that.I hate that and I was in some kind of situation like it, he didnt treat me good and I left him.So ,not all the woman stands by men who behave like shit.

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I see no reason why this post needs to be closed or deleted, this forum is designed for u to get things off your chest (within reason of course) and u made some valid points as did ABT with his reply

i whole heartedly agree with ABT, a guy hitting any girl is a BIG no no, in the majority of cases us Guys are bigger and stronger than our GF's and could inflict a lot of pain and suffering, NO body has the right to do that to anyone !

ABT could be right, maybe the guy had a bad day, on 364 days out of 365 he could be the best guy in the world for that girl, who knows without knowing them ? (still no excuse for hitting her thou !)
We all have off days

But also in so many case's some women are intimidated into staying in bad relationships, their guys making them feel worthless and lucky that they are with this jerk off of a guy, "better the devil u know" is what comes to mind, some guys are incredibly good at that kind of mind game and then there is the threat of physical violence too, there are sometimes many factors why some girls stay with a total prick of a guy and yet one more to consider, to others he may be a jerk, but to her he is gentle and kind and loveing and she loves him.

I got to admit i am a lucky guy, I have Wicked Red on these forums as my GF and i trust her with my life and love her with all my heart
She is understanding, careing, warm and wonderful and i would give my life for her.

Peace

**Edited he he cos i said ATB instead of ABT DOH !**

PS. For the record, no i did not like ATB - 9PM (Til I Come) lol

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"Neo, who are you talking to?" - ABT.

"Oh, ABT, i'm sorry, i guess i was talking to the wrong person LoL!" - Neo.

"ATB, sawed off!" - Neo.

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LoL, its all good. BTW i agree with everything Neo said.

-ABT-

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You know why that guy was so angry?
Because he knew there were guys all around her much better than him. Once in a bad mood, prolly didn't want to do shit.

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there's no need to over-analyze this, it's a well accepted fact that chix dig guys that r jerks to them or mean to them, i guess they think it makes guys more macho...it's chic logic i guess

http://www.modernman.com/women/180-1.html

peace

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Originally posted by AnotherWay83 there's no need to over-analyze this, it's a well accepted fact that chix dig guys that r jerks to them or mean to them, i guess they think it makes guys more macho...it's chic logic i guess

NO WAY!!!! some chics prolly do think that but its only cuz they have low self-esteem and dont think they could get someone that would treat them decently. thats how i ended up in an abusive relationship--also i think a lot of girls dont realize that theyre being abused when theyre in situations like that because theyve never been treated well by any guys...

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Originally posted by BLUEGIRL NO WAY!!!! some chics prolly do think that but its only cuz they have low self-esteem and dont think they could get someone that would treat them decently. thats how i ended up in an abusive relationship--also i think a lot of girls dont realize that theyre being abused when theyre in situations like that because theyve never been treated well by any guys...

maybe thats been ur experience, so i can't tell u to think otherwise, but i still stand by my views (as do many, many other guys also, i think)

peace

As much as some girls not all girls can be annoying when your in a relationship with them, theres no point in fucking hitting them and treating them like shit, If I was at that party or club and I saw some guy punch or slap that girl round the face, as much as its not my business I would quite happily kick ten shades of fucking shit out of that bastard, fair enough he might be a nice guy every other day of the year and he may of had a shitty day, but fuck hitting a women thats a wee bit out of order. Domestic violence on a whole and abusive relationships is fucking immoral and I hate fucking seeing it, i've maybe seen about 5 cases of raging arguements between couples in my town turn to violence but either way its shitty, and scummy, and the weird thing is that most extreme cases of domestic violence and abusive relationships involve people in forces mostly like if your husbands a Cop you stand statisticially a 10% more chance of suffering domestic violence and abuse from them, one dude I used to go to school with his old man was a fireman and he used to belt the fuck out of this kid, his little brother and his mother like big time, its a fucking pity it exists in society and a lot of the time people fail to notice it and it can lead to even more extreme things like martial rape, and murder, like check out most cases of a lot of women that have been murdered by their husbands, the couple who have had thats seemed to the public to have had a great relationship with their husband, when behind closed doors he's actually beating her and gradully in some cases that kind of shit turns to murder.

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Originally posted by AnotherWay83 there's no need to over-analyze this, it's a well accepted fact that chix dig guys that r jerks to them or mean to them, i guess they think it makes guys more macho...it's chic logic i guess http://www.modernman.com/women/180-1.html peace

haha, that's where i always go wrong: i'm too nice, but every once in a while i'll be in my jackass mode, and it's interesting how girls cling to that!! (maybe i'll be a ass more often)

>JM<