Okay, there's a girl that I've been hanging out with alot lately. We both really like each other, in that way; coming up soon is the Valentine's Day dance at my school and we're both going with seperate people because before we started liking each other we had agreed to go with these people.
So I have a number of problems. So here we go with the key points:
1. This girl, her name is Sarah - we both like each other alot and its pretty clear to everyone around us and to each other, but we are afraid to say anything about it. We haven't known each other that long, maybe 4 weeks or so but we had known of each other and casually chatted before we started hanging out in the dating kind of sense. We call each other and text each other on mobile everyday, and we're pretty touchy/huggy with each other (havent kissed her yet though). She's going with her friend to the dance.
2. A girl who I think likes me whose name is Jenna had asked me to the dance about a month ago, before I started hanging out with Sarah. This puts me in a precarious position since I like Sarah and vice versa, and yet I'm bound by obligation to go with Jenna the same way Sarah is bound by obligation to go with her friend. I don't want anything funky to happen at the dance so I'm restraining myself.
3. Jenna doesn't know anything about Sarah. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to tell her that I'm interested in someone else.
4. Sarah and I aren't officially going out yet (remember I'm in high school and high school relationship workings are lame). I would just let the relationship continue in its upward trend as I had in past relationships except for the fact that Valentine's Day is next Monday.
5. I don't know what I should do for Valentine's Day with Sarah.
Please, TA, you've been helpful in these stupid girl problem threads in the past, and this is one is so trivial I just need some outside random internet guidance.
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Feb-09-2005 03:52
Orbax
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Send sara a picture of you hugging a teddy bear and say I wish you were this bear. and also be boning it.
Feb-09-2005 03:55
Max Thomson
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Feb-09-2005 03:57
töbias
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Registered: Sep 2004
Location: Melbourne.
Just go with the people you are meant to, but agree on a time to meet up for a secret Valentine's kiss with the girl you like.
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Feb-09-2005 03:58
Mebot
Maverick
Registered: Nov 2002
Location: Seattle
quit the fucking middle-man bullshit
YOU like Sarah
dont give a fuck about Jenna.. tell Sarah you like her... if that fails, tell Jenna you like her, if that fails then:
quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
Send sara a picture of you hugging a teddy bear and say I wish you were this bear. and also be boning it.
but tell Sarah you like her, without Jenna knowing.
Feb-09-2005 04:00
r5a
snake inverter
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Toronto
DOUBLE DATE!!! be a player!
Feb-09-2005 04:13
Allied Nations
Make it happen cap'n
Registered: Mar 2004
Location: MTHELL
Re: PC's Girl problem
quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit
4. Sarah and I aren't officially going out yet (remember I'm in high school and high school relationship workings are lame). I would just let the relationship continue in its upward trend as I had in past relationships except for the fact that Valentine's Day is next Monday.
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Feb-09-2005 04:28
Allied Nations
Make it happen cap'n
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Re: Re: PC's Girl problem
oh, and i bet jenna is hotter, or there would be no thread.
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Feb-09-2005 04:29
simplyatbliss
tranceaddict in training
Registered: Aug 2004
Location: New Orleans, Louisiana
Go out w/ Sarah. If Jenna's attractive, tell her "You are beautiful, but you don't mean a thing to me."
This kind of situation is not that hard to get out of. If you like Sarah, then go out with her. If you don't like Jenna, don't.
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Feb-09-2005 05:21
Boomer187
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Registered: Aug 2001
Location: USA
quote:
Originally posted by simplyatbliss
Go out w/ Sarah. If Jenna's attractive, tell her "You are beautiful, but you don't mean a thing to me."
This kind of situation is not that hard to get out of. If you like Sarah, then go out with her. If you don't like Jenna, don't.
dats a bad ass sig.
and cut to the chase with sarah, but tell her even though you are going with your friend jenna, you really wanna go with her. then mouth kiss her.
Feb-09-2005 05:24
Lateralus
Junior tranceaddict
Registered: Nov 2004
Location: boco
Somehow hook Jenna up with Sarah's date, then the two of you can walk off happily into the sunset. Problem solved.
Or you can always just blow Jenna off after the dance. You two arent going out, and its highschool. Its prefectly normal for your date to run off with someone else by the end of the night.
I wouldnt worry too much about it.
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Feb-09-2005 05:28
KilldaDJ
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