What do you think about at a funeral?

the relationship I had with that person, memories we shared, and their accomplishments. sorrow for those closer to the deceased than I, and thats about it (Ive only been to one)

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it depends on whose funeral.

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i've only been to one. it was kinda weird. i wasn't like super close with the guy, but the first night i ever took ecstasy i was with my best friend, her boyfriend and his best friend ryan whom i was dating...and the guy who later died (also named ryan) showed up so we like partied together that night and we had that rolling "bond" that you make when you roll with people...just bullshitting all night and getting to know each other. he was really cool and he and the guy i was dating grew up together since they were like babies, so when he died a few months later, i just went to the funeral to support ryan, but it was still weird knowing that the other ryan was gone forever.

during the funeral i just kept thinking about that night and i remembered he was talking about being a firefighter and stuff. i also thought about his family and then of course my bf...he had to give a speech and he was trying not to cry and stuff...it sucked. i can't say for sure, but i got the impression that he (the guy who died) had a drinking/pill problem and i'm pretty sure he died from wrapping his car around a tree driving wasted in the middle of the night. i didn't ask a lot of questions, but that was just what i had heard.

actually i think he was supposed to be driving down to ft. lauderdale from orlando to come and see us again and party, and i think he stopped at a party the night he was supposed to leave, and got wasted and never made it here obviously. cuz i remember my bf saying he was coming down and we were all like yea cool! but he got in the accident.

don't drink and drive!!!!

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

I've only been on 1 funeral, I didn't even know the person. at that time it was something like:
imagining a clown riding a mini bike with a track on the background that goes...tu tu turutututuru... tu tu turututuru or something

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Originally posted by Meat187 Because "American Football" is neither played with a ball nor with your feet. It should be called Handegg.

yeah it depends on who it is, but sometimes I just have weird thoughts running through my head. Yeah I know your supposed to be thinking of the person and doesn't mean i don't. I might see I hot chick and I'll be thinking bad thoughts if you know what I mean. I know its wrong but you can't tell your mind what to think about it has a mind of its own (no pun intended). Or I'll start thinking about what it will be like at my own funeral, will anyone care... Then I usually play out the scenario of if I wasn't really dead and I woke up in the coffin while they're shoveling dirt on me, could I get out? What can i say i'm one messed up mofo.

Teh only time I think of girls around there and my own funeral and things is when im not really close to the person that is dead. however when its ur best friend laying there its hard to think about how hot his sister is. im not saying its impossible hehe.


but for those not that close, like a great aunt, or cousin twice removed I think about if they are feeding us, when is it over, and then I try to stay awake.

"Let's see. I'd do her, do her, lose the ribbon and we'll talk..... ugh, who hasn't done her."

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Originally posted by Renegade "Let's see. I'd do her, do her, lose the ribbon and we'll talk..... ugh, who hasn't done her."

teh win!

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Originally posted by Boomer187 Teh only time I think of girls around there and my own funeral and things is when im not really close to the person that is dead. however when its ur best friend laying there its hard to think about how hot his sister is. im not saying its impossible hehe. but for those not that close, like a great aunt, or cousin twice removed I think about if they are feeding us, when is it over, and then I try to stay awake.

yeah... ffcourse,
It's a lot different if you are really close to that person.. really depends who it is... hey maybe I would even cry

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Originally posted by Meat187 Because "American Football" is neither played with a ball nor with your feet. It should be called Handegg.

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Originally posted by Kaidreas yeah... ffcourse, It's a lot different if you are really close to that person.. really depends who it is... hey maybe I would even cry

Strong men also cry, Lebowski

sex, drugs, and EDM.

silly answer for a silly thread.