I was digging around in the bottom drawer of my dresser in search of one of my old leather belts... and I ran across my "black book" from my first year of college, which was over four years ago. Some of the girls in there, I still talk to. Others, however, I lost touch with along the way.

I appeal to the CORe, now, in search of an answer to the burning question...

Do I start calling chicks out of the blue after four years of not speaking to them... or is that just weird? I imagine that several of them (possibly all) are in relationships, married, might have kids, etc.

I dunno. This is really weird. Just seeing the names brought back a LOT of interesting memories.

Ideas? I'm hung up, here.

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2. Klea - Tic Toc (Paul Van Dyk's Re-Edit)
3. Alibi - Eternity (Inner City Mix)
4. Cirque de Soleil - Pokinoi (Sasha Mix)
5. Chris & Kai vs. Levin - Gone to Heaven

What have you got to lose I guess?

wwu.punisher "hi...you may think of me as some four eyed fool...."

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Originally posted by wwu.punisher I was digging around in the bottom drawer of my dresser in search of one of my old leather belts... and I ran across my "black book" from my first year of college, which was over four years ago. Some of the girls in there, I still talk to. Others, however, I lost touch with along the way. I appeal to the CORe, now, in search of an answer to the burning question... Do I start calling chicks out of the blue after four years of not speaking to them... or is that just weird? I imagine that several of them (possibly all) are in relationships, married, might have kids, etc. I dunno. This is really weird. Just seeing the names brought back a LOT of interesting memories. Ideas? I'm hung up, here.

well you could just call them up and say you just found their number again after a long time and figured what the fuck and you called to see what was new.

at least that way there is an explanation why you are calling out of the blue so as to not weird them out, and plus thats a good conversation starter.

id say fuck it do it, maybe one of them will be flattered you called after such a long time or something.

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Originally posted by Sunsnail What have you got to lose I guess?

I was thinking the same thing at first... but I was also a bit of a prick back then. I fear that most of these girls are going to go, "Yeah... You're that ****** that fooled around with me at that party and then never called me again."

I don't need another shot to my esteem right now.

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1. Utah Saints - Lost Vagueness (Oliver Lieb's Main Mix)
2. Klea - Tic Toc (Paul Van Dyk's Re-Edit)
3. Alibi - Eternity (Inner City Mix)
4. Cirque de Soleil - Pokinoi (Sasha Mix)
5. Chris & Kai vs. Levin - Gone to Heaven

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Originally posted by sym well you could just call them up and say you just found their number again after a long time and figured what the fuck and you called to see what was new. at least that way there is an explanation why you are calling out of the blue so as to not weird them out, and plus thats a good conversation starter. id say fuck it do it, maybe one of them will be flattered you called after such a long time or something.

Meh. Fuck it, you're right.

I'll report back on this when I've made a few calls later tonight.

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1. Utah Saints - Lost Vagueness (Oliver Lieb's Main Mix)
2. Klea - Tic Toc (Paul Van Dyk's Re-Edit)
3. Alibi - Eternity (Inner City Mix)
4. Cirque de Soleil - Pokinoi (Sasha Mix)
5. Chris & Kai vs. Levin - Gone to Heaven

just use the line from swingers. "I was digging around in my box of old stuff and I happened to find this number, I dont remember your name, and oh did we have sex?" be the ultimate pimp

Haha yes. I hate when threads just die with no feedback afterwards.

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Originally posted by wwu.punisher I was thinking the same thing at first... but I was also a bit of a prick back then. I fear that most of these girls are going to go, "Yeah... You're that ****** that fooled around with me at that party and then never called me again." I don't need another shot to my esteem right now.

if they say some shit like that just say ya you've changed now and youre a good guy blah blah... and than hit it and quit it again

If some guy from four years ago suddenly called me, I'd think he was weird. There's usually a reason you lose touch with you. Usually, it's because neither of you gave a shit enough about each other to stay in touch. Clearly, if they weren't important to you then, why would you suddenly pick up the phone and call?

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Originally posted by squirrelly If some guy from four years ago suddenly called me, I'd think he was weird. There's usually a reason you lose touch with you. Usually, it's because neither of you gave a shit enough about each other to stay in touch. Clearly, if they weren't important to you then, why would you suddenly pick up the phone and call?

hehe

+1

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Originally posted by squirrelly If some guy from four years ago suddenly called me, I'd think he was weird. There's usually a reason you lose touch with you. Usually, it's because neither of you gave a shit enough about each other to stay in touch. Clearly, if they weren't important to you then, why would you suddenly pick up the phone and call?

guys mainly do this because we are masochistic and we are also wondering if in 4 years something changed/we are notliking enough of eachother to hang out and maybe get hooked up with eachothers social circles.

Im learning more and more these days that knowing people is more important than knowing things.