1st off this is my 1st post. I do love trance and all other kinds of music. Just thought I would add that for no reason. I have a BIG problem. Need help. Im in the Tampa Bay area. Im 29 yrs old. My GF is 22 yrs old. She is absolutly beautiful no question about it. When she was 14 This guy asked her out. She said no at 1st but he persisted. He was black. She never had sex before but after him always beggin for it she said she gave in 3x, even though she said he never got it in. The next 5 guys she slept with were all black. She said it was never a preferance. Im wondering is this a new fad in school? Is everyone wanting a mixed relationship? Are white guys losers now? When I met her she was 18. We have been together for 4 yrs now. But it still bothers me and Im not sure why. Im not a racist or anything. What do you guys think. What is it like in high school these days?

im also a loser too

????? Are you serious about that????? Well i haven't heard about any 'fad' about mixed relationships. To be honest thats kinds dumb if thats what people are doing in your area. i noticed that was your first post i think i cant reall remember untill i see it again but yeah welcome to TA and dont worry about anything like that....

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well, first of, welcome to TA!

in regards to your question...hrmm thats a pretty interesting thought..im 15 in high school. Well, I myself (im chinese, and if any of you are, you can probably relate), I'm not really "allowed" to "love" anyone of the other race, but i dont usually care. i like a bunch of girls who are white. in fact, no body in our school really does care about the race of the person they like. i dbout its a preference...i think its more like... uhm..a...racial tolerance sorta thing (probably isnt the best wording)..if this thread goes on, ill be interested to see what others have to say.

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I don't think there's a problem with two people of different races dating each other. Sure it looks awkward...but its two people who love each other and thats what matters. We're all people, we just look different and isn't everybody different in some way or another? People who think that it is wrong have the wrong idea and I would call them racist.

I haven't seen a fad of this kind of dating but there's only 3 or 4 black people in my school...its about 99% white.

Coincidence!!!!
I don't think that there is a better word for this.
I myself have slept with a few girls who were not the same race as me and I don't see nothing wrong with it. I mean we are all human aren't we?

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MMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!SANDWICHES!!!!!!!

Yep, most of us.

Though I do have my doubts about Palivar......

Well as always..welcome aboard. And regarding to your topic...dating someone of a different race does not have anything of strange IMO, maybe it's just this globalization thing..dunno much about it

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So damn Happy!

havent seen this fad at all (however im not in school anymore), and dont pay much attention to race anyway.

nothing wrong with mixed relationships imo. dont make no nevamind

i did go out with a girl from s. korea (she moved here 7 years ago) and i didn't see anything different about it. the only thing was opposition from her parents cos they were traditional and wanted her to have an asian bf...neither of us cared tho.

oh ya welcome to ta

Ever think that you're the one showing the preference by only dating white girls? For most people it's not a fad or a preference coz it's not even an issue.

After 4 years it still bothers u? Then u r making problem of nothing!!!
She slept with 5 guys in 4 years, met you and stays with YOU the last 4 years...
I don't think that the white guy here is a loser...

damn good topic....

Actually i had an ex-girlfriend awhile back that had slept with a black guy.... i could never bring myself to sleep with her though...

Its not that i'm racist, b/c i'm not... 45% of my friends are black. Its just some weird mental block... this mental picture. Maybe it is a subconcious thought of racism, and if it is, i am pretty pathetic. Has anyone else had this similar situation with similar result? (i.e. a girlfriend that had slept with a black before and you couldn't bring yourself to sleep with her...?)

otherwise... touchy subject. Trying not to make it ugly...

-ABT-

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