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| quote: | Originally posted by Yan
Well that's an interesting response. That's actually rather insightful. Do you think that this only happens for females or for all people in general?
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Not sure. Actually I don't even know if this is how most females look at it.
Most girls I know had sex for the sole purpose of fitting in, or getting guys to like them, etc. It wasn't about that at all for me. I held off doing it for as long as I could, I really wanted to be sure I was doing the right thing for myself, and that I was 100% ready.
When I made the decision to do it, I hadn't planned on having sex again for a long time after that because it wasn't about promiscuity or a physical need, or any of the other typical reasons people do it. I think it was about a year till I had sex again, after my first boyfriend and I had been together for about 6 months. I took his virginity.
To this day I still think sex a pretty serious thing.
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