He was perfect for me -- in every way that counted. Morally, spirituality... my family loved him.. we even graduated from the same college 2 years apart. He said ILY first...
And then it started to go downhill in August... I made a list of all the things that bothered me about him. One of those things is that we never argue. I know I know... arguing right? Who wants to argue with their significant other? But I believe that arguing also shows passion... passion for life and for our relationship. He won't yell at me, so when I go into sarcastic mode (that's just me, I'm always sarcastic), he won't dish it back at me which I desparately need someone to give back what I give them -- does anyone understand what I'm saying?
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Oh gosh I can completely understanding wanting to argue with someone! LOL. I need someone who can put me in my place sometimes and can 'stand up to me'. I also think that arguing is natural and can be healthy if you're doing it right. Holding things in and back isn't good for a relationship, you have to be expressive and sometimes 'just talking about it' doesn't get the feelings out. I dated a guy who NEVER argued or even had a strong opinion which drove me nuts. He was so placid and almost boring.
This is just brilliant
Oct-10-2006 23:07
Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam
Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
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Oct-10-2006 23:11
Vlad
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Apr 2003
Location: San Siro [NYTA #3]
Yea, but you could be nice, but still aggressive, stubborn, forward, and opinionated.
Some people just dont know how to be these things, but at the same time respect their women. You take it too far, you could offend her... dont take it anywhere at all, youre a pussy.
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Flawless victory.
Oct-10-2006 23:11
mezzir
BEES?
Registered: Nov 2002
Location: assachusetts
yeah there's a difference between being a spinless pushover (described above) and a nice guy (not described explicitly above)
Registered: Jun 2004
Location: Free Candy! Yay! (Only available in select vans)
I am a conceited, arrogant asshole.
I talk at my women, not to them.
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Oct-10-2006 23:26
ShadoWolf
ISOS
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: State of Trance
More proof of the validity of Ladder Theory.
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quote:
Originally posted by Vlad
Yea, but you could be nice, but still aggressive, stubborn, forward, and opinionated.
Some people just dont know how to be these things, but at the same time respect their women. You take it too far, you could offend her... dont take it anywhere at all, youre a pussy.
+1
a guy needs to know when to be nice and when to get the baby powder out
Oct-11-2006 00:01
echosystm
super wow maker
Registered: Jul 2004
Location:
women want to be dominated and lead.
they want a MAN. not another vagina thats just going to let them do whatever they want, they have friends for that...
Oct-11-2006 00:32
LatinLover
Bad Boy 4 Life
Registered: Oct 2006
Location: Medellin, Colombia/ Miami, FL
First,
I have seen this type of scenearios were the woman does not like the guy simply because he is very "passive" if thats the word to describe it. Well from what I see is that she loves everything except the fact that he dosent show any type of agressive character to her. Some women just dont like the fact that their man are just too predictable.
Oct-11-2006 00:42
pkcRAISTLIN
arbiter's chief minion
Registered: Jul 2002
Location:
more evidence that sarcasm is the only form of female "wit".
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Oct-11-2006 00:48
dallastar
~Dance~Sing~Floss~Travel~
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: 333 Half Evil ™
I think there are few nice guys left in the world!
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