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Not to sound completely fruity, but was this with a girlfriend/wife/significant other or just a random hit? Are there any relationship problems or was there any reason for you to be nervous?
Think about that hard (lol) and that should help you determine if it was physical or psychological.
The only times I've ever had Big Jim not want to seem to completely cooperate was when I was trying something new and I was nervous (ie- anal and I didn't want to hurt her, when the wife and I brought another girl home and I wasn't sure what the boundaries were, etc.) So it's a psychological thing which has happened once or twice. Unfortunately, those are the times when you totally DON'T want that to happen, but what can ya do, eh?
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That too. That's a good point. My wife has told me on occasion that I can sex her even though she's not in the mood, but I can't really bring myself to do it unless it's been a LONG time or something.
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