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Can you repsect & date someone you had sex with the first time you met? Explain
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yes 12 30.77%
no 14 35.90%
maybe 13 33.33%
Total: 39 votes 100%
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Registered: May 2002
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Dunno Sex & Respect

Can you respect and seriously date someone you had sex with the first time you met?


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Old Post Sep-27-2002 08:11  United States
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Arbiter
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Yes. Since no objective criteria exists to evaluate the quality of their decision to engage in intercourse, it would be irrational to allow that fact to adversely affect your degree of repect for them.

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Vanilla
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Registered: Apr 2002
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No, deep in the back of your mind you are gonna know that she's a whooooor


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Lira
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Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasilia, Brazil

two votes for "no", two votes for "yes" and two votes for "maybe"... people seem a bit splited here

Voted for "no" (the fact is that I'm a bloody puritan ). However, every girl that wanted to have sex with me that fast, couldn't really have my respect. I mean, I respect them as people (who am I to judge someone?), because I think that she knows her life better than anyone else, besides, she may be more open-minded ( or non-minded ) than me. Nevertheless, I don't feel like having a relationship with such person for obvious differences


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Trancejedi
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Registered: Aug 2002
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Sure, why not.


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Nadi
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Registered: Dec 2001
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Not speaking from experience. But probably. People only look at it as slutty or whatnot because we are taught that it is.

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pnuemo
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it definatly depends... id have to do a skank background check to decide whether or not i would date her after the sex

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PeacefulWarrior
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Registered: Jul 2002
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No, because if they had sex with me on the first date they probably have done the same thing on other nights with other guys.

Although I admit that a big double standard does exist here. Most guys do want sex on a first date, and if they get it then the girl's a whore, whereas the guy is a huge stud.


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Registered: Mar 2001
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Mmmm although we guys like to have sex with the first girl , we can also see from there what kind of girl she is, me personally, if I really like this girl and feel something deep for her, and have sex with her the first time, I would feel so let down, as I was expecting the best from her in all ways which includes respect, I just like to see a girl that knows how to defend herself from situations.. if the girl tells me right away to .. stay cool and dont go there .. I would actually like that just because she lets herself respect and its not an easy girl .. meaning.. shes worth it .. if its an easy chick, its what I call a WHORE..


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Arbiter
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I just like to see a girl that knows how to defend herself from situations.. if the girl tells me right away to .. stay cool and dont go there .. I would actually like that just because she lets herself respect and its not an easy girl


Have you considered the possibility that she isn't doing it because she's "easy" but because she _wants_ to? Personally I would rather date a girl who was honest to herself and did what she wanted than one who refused in an attempt to conform to rationally unjustifiable social norms.

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Lira
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Registered: Nov 2001
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four votes for "no", four votes for "yes" and four votes for "maybe"... hehe, is it always a draw here?


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Have you considered the possibility that she isn't doing it because she's "easy" but because she _wants_ to? Personally I would rather date a girl who was honest to herself and did what she wanted than one who refused in an attempt to conform to rationally unjustifiable social norms.


Mmm well, I personally like girls who dont go as easy, cause that means they know self respect.. the girl that goes with you the same night has t like a 99.9% of doing the same with alot of other guys.. and I dont like girls done by bunch of guys.. I want them fresh.. something that deserves to be mine.. its the best .. in my opinion..


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