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La5eR
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Registered: Oct 2003
Location: MN by sun, ND by dark.
At home help.

for the passed 5 years my father has been extremely over-bearing. Hes been threatening the lives of our family, idolizes money more than his own family members, and has been increasing his violent tirades.

He seems to think that if hes miserable he must make everyone else in my family miserable. This week has been a brutal week for all 5 of us. I got my wisdom tooth taken out and imediately after leaving the dentists office I collapse due to sincopy and hit my head and shoulder, the ambulance was called. After that I went home and collapsed in the bathroom further scraping myself and dinging my head. My mother calls 911 and then my father again. My father says to my mother "Dont call 911 I cant afford another ambulance bill, and hes most likely just faking it". During these fainting spells, my bp dropped by 20% and tempurature dropped by 10F(3C) and I got really clammy.

THe other scenarios that have happened this week is the fact that my Father didnt get out of the stock market on time and lost 60k USD in the last month, ordered my mom to go back to work labor day and then called her back saying go back to work the 20th cause of the loss in funds from the stock market. Another scenario was the fact that when I cleaned the grill for a sun night bbq, a small piece of paint got chipped off and he just went ape shit, kicking me in the shin, picking me up by the scruff of the shirt and saying "get outta here before I kill you.". My brother calls later this week saying that his friend wrecked his motorcycle, and without batting an eye my dad asks "How much is it going to cost me to repair it" without asking are you alright and is your friend alright, again idolizing money over family and friends lives.

What should I do? I am still sort of financially tied to him to support me and my school fund, yet I cant take it anymore.

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Arbiter
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Re: At home help.

So basically what you're saying is you're mad because he cares so much more about money than family, but you don't feel like you can do anything because he's supporting you financially (or, in other words, giving up money to support his family).

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occrider
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Registered: Oct 2000
Location: New York

1. Kill your father
2. Marry your mother
3. Write a play about it
4. Profit


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Sunsnail
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Registered: Sep 2004
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I feel smart because I know what play occ is talking about

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Ian
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Registered: Dec 2001
Location: UK

have him put in prison for child abuse & assault. make sure you know his bank number & account details.

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KilldaDJ
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Registered: Sep 2001
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get him sectioned.


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xSovrce
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Registered: Aug 2007
Location: Tranced

I think it's sad/sick how he needs help but people would rather make jokes. I guess my only advice (assuming your post was genuine) would be to gather all the evidence you can against him. Video tape, voice record, get bills to back up said video & voice records and when he finally takes it too far (you'll know) use it against him. It'll probably involve you going to court anyway but regardless, have a safe place for you and your mother to go. Maybe even if it's just a hotel room for a few days, I don't see why you should stay there unless you absolutely have to.. which unfortunately seems to be the case.

I know that sounds overwhelming but think about it - How much longer before he kills someone? Maybe not directly as in a bona fide murder but indirectly like wrongful neglect. Short of that, hang tough my man. Give it time and hope (pray if you're religious) for the best. Life's tough my friend, but it doesn't have to be THAT tough.

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LoveHate
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Registered: Oct 2006
Location: Vancouver

1.kill your father
2.??????
3.profit

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Rose
hmmm



Registered: May 2007
Location: -

I think it is pretty messed up of people making all these "profit" jokes about this. But yeah, like what xSovrce said, video tape, voice record, get bills to back up said video & voice records and when he finally takes it too far you can use it against him.



I wish you the best of luck


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