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At home help.
for the passed 5 years my father has been extremely over-bearing. Hes been threatening the lives of our family, idolizes money more than his own family members, and has been increasing his violent tirades.
He seems to think that if hes miserable he must make everyone else in my family miserable. This week has been a brutal week for all 5 of us. I got my wisdom tooth taken out and imediately after leaving the dentists office I collapse due to sincopy and hit my head and shoulder, the ambulance was called. After that I went home and collapsed in the bathroom further scraping myself and dinging my head. My mother calls 911 and then my father again. My father says to my mother "Dont call 911 I cant afford another ambulance bill, and hes most likely just faking it". During these fainting spells, my bp dropped by 20% and tempurature dropped by 10F(3C) and I got really clammy.
THe other scenarios that have happened this week is the fact that my Father didnt get out of the stock market on time and lost 60k USD in the last month, ordered my mom to go back to work labor day and then called her back saying go back to work the 20th cause of the loss in funds from the stock market. Another scenario was the fact that when I cleaned the grill for a sun night bbq, a small piece of paint got chipped off and he just went ape shit, kicking me in the shin, picking me up by the scruff of the shirt and saying "get outta here before I kill you.". My brother calls later this week saying that his friend wrecked his motorcycle, and without batting an eye my dad asks "How much is it going to cost me to repair it" without asking are you alright and is your friend alright, again idolizing money over family and friends lives.
What should I do? I am still sort of financially tied to him to support me and my school fund, yet I cant take it anymore.
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