This question is mostly for those who have never cheated in a relationship, but I guess those of you who have cheated can answer as well:
Would you date someone you knew had a history of cheating (say, two or more times) on significant others?
Jan-31-2008 02:03
Frenchie
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Re: Would you date a cheater?
Nope.
Jan-31-2008 02:04
Silky Johnson
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Certainly not. Leopards don't change their spots.
Jan-31-2008 02:05
Lira
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I don't know, no matter how open-minded I am, I'd be wary of dating a cheater. She'd have to sweep me off my feet or something... and we'd have to talk about it right from the beginning.
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Jan-31-2008 02:05
silene
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Sure I would, but I prefer open relationships; not sure whether that makes my opinion invalid.
It seems to me that at least some people cheat because of confines of monogamy. Opening up the relationship can solve this feeling of entrapment without actually having to screw anyone else. Cool huh?
Jan-31-2008 02:07
silene
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quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Leopards don't change their spots.
It happens, but it's not a gamble worth risking.
Jan-31-2008 02:10
Fibonacci
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Having an open relationship is different. Thats a rarity.
But in any case, a once or twice incidental thing... you know the whoops i made a mistake but told my bf/gf it was a genuine mistake, that i can look past.
But I'd never date a girl with a strong history of it. I don't want to be in the position where she could ever justify cheating on me, if she was able to justify it with the last guy. I've never cheated in any of my relationships, and I enjoy having alot of slack in my relationships because I think I have earned a trustworthy reputation.
Jan-31-2008 02:32
Rodrico
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Nope, cause once a cheater, maybe it was a mistake, but twice a cheater, always a cheater...
Jan-31-2008 02:45
Frenchie
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Cheating is not a mistake.
Jan-31-2008 02:46
Moongoose
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Desperately in love wit one who has a record for it. Though she usually only cheats with girls, i don't mind that very much, actually i find i kind of hot. As for guys im fairly certain that the only guy she ever cheated with was...well me.
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Jan-31-2008 02:55
UmmiE
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quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
Cheating is not a mistake.