i'm so fucking irritated with my sister right now.
i'll keep it short but basically she doesn't know how to raise her kids and now they're having problems because of her and i don't know if it's my place to tell her to get her damn shit together. she'll immediately say something like, "oh wait till you have kids bla bla bla"
she feeds them garbage junk food all the time and now my nephew has to take zantac at 5 years old and he also started shitting in his pants lately even though he's potty trained. i'm pretty sure he's doing it for attention and she just laughs it off.
wtf would you guys say something if it was your brother or sister? or should i just mind my own business.
and sorry i know this is the 2nd thread i've started about my sister and her kids but i dunno if i have the right to say anything. my bf thinks i should rip her and her husband a new asshole over this.
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man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Sep-24-2009 14:34
Silky Johnson
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I would definitely say something.
Sep-24-2009 14:36
MrJiveBoJingles
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If my brother were doing that I would tear into him. :-P
Sep-24-2009 14:36
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I would definitely say something.
Sep-24-2009 14:37
jonSun
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Say something.. but maybe say it face to face & use a tone of care/love rather than constructive criticism.
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Sep-24-2009 14:38
MunkyAngel
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i'd say something. sometimes the truth hurts and it's better she gets word of her parenting faults from family instead of child services. good luck and hopefully she won't get tooooo pissed at you for speaking the truth.
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Sep-24-2009 14:39
ziptnf
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Location: Louisville, KY
Yeah, but it can't just be you tearing them a new asshole, they will act like you don't know what you're doing since you don't have kids. Get someone like your mother or father to back you up or a friend of yours, and tell them that they are worthless wastes of space and need to pick up a book on Parenting 101.
If you want to justify sticking your nose in...you ARE family, and therefore do have an investment in those kids. I really don't think you'd be out of line at all to get involved.
Sep-24-2009 14:39
Arbiter
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lol genetics
Sep-24-2009 14:39
MrJiveBoJingles
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lol genetics
lulz
Sep-24-2009 14:40
Slylee
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Location: Hollywood, FL
i wish i could afford to hire a private investigator to follow her around for 2 weeks and get her on film going to mcdonalds because she lies all the time and acts like they barely go there but my mom said she has seen her take them there twice in one day before.
and last night she was telling me about this homemade granola bar recipe she has and she was making them for my nephew's lunches and she was like, "yea you can make them healthy and put dried cranberries in them" but then she went on to tell me she was making hers with marshmellows and chocolate all over it
god she is such a fucking fat lazy moron.
i'll probably wait until i go up there for a visit and i'm going to talk with her in person. i'm sure i'll be going there for one of the holidays later this year.
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Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Sep-24-2009 14:41
Silky Johnson
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And I hate when people pull that "Wait till you have kids/how could you know if you don't have kids" bullshit. It doesn't take a parent to know that taking zantac at 5 and shitting your pants all the time is NOT FUCKING NORMAL.
