I hate those guys who think they can walk to any girl at a club... It makes me feel highly uncomfortable and I feel very ashamed about my own sex... (I'm a 21 years old guy, yes)

Is this the way to confront a girl???

Example of what's bothering me:
A couple of weeks ago I went to a disco here in the netherlands with a girl I knew. I needed to go to the bathroom and when I came back, there where 4 guys talking to her!!!!!! I think this is not normal and I simply don't understand why they do it like that...

Girls:
Do you actually like it when guy's act like this???????? I realy would like to know that!

imo it's waaaay more exiting when you've got eye contact, and when you're smiling to eachother....


Opinions highly apreciated!!

i think you're right....when i think about it i realize that guys like those you're talking about is those who disgust me the most in my whole life!

man i hate when things like that happens! but yes it is MUUUCH better to have eye contact first...maybe maaany tims before you even speak with eachother!! thats better instead of walking around, thinking you have some new age mambo jambo powers to attract girls......

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Originally posted by junis and I feel very ashamed about my own sex...

I hope you haven't just figured that out ! I think (some) girls are just as bad. they like the attention I guess.

lol, I feel like that about a lot of ppl I meet / see around me. Not only in clubs, but in everyday life, traffic, at the mall etc... A lot of times I feel like Michael Douglas in that movie "
Falling down" hehe lol

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oh, i soooo understand your feeling...


see, all that eye contact and smiling is too romantic for today's everyday slug bad boys

not to offend anyone, but personally i think those "cool" "backstreet-boys-like" guys don't have much to offer romantically (of course there are exceptions). as the saying goes, "huge body, small dick" and sometimes, small brain.

it's just SO FUCKING ANNOYING when some random guys start giving looks to the girl you like... just so fucking rude and impudent.... little ******s...

sorry, i just had to vent too...

btw, is it true that SHY guys are MORE romantic in general?

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Originally posted by ampburner A lot of times I feel like Michael Douglas in that movie " Falling down" hehe lol

is that the one where he leaves his car in traffic and goes on a rampage and then at the end he gets shot for a plastic gun?

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Just yesterday I've been to a club with my g/f and her friend(a girl).
And even despite the fact that I was there, some guys still tried to hit on both of them. And the bad thing is, some guys don't undesrtand rejection. Fuck, if a girl tells you NO, that means NO. Some guys continue "attacking" her even after she explicitly let them no she doesn't want them.

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hehe yes that's the one I like the scene where he goes into McDonalds ghehe

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...We had that lightswitch installed so you could turn the lights on - and off. NOT SO YOU COULD HAVE LIGHTSWITCH RAVES! now let's go break open that glowstick and poor it into homestarrunner's mountain dew! I heared they have to pump your stomach when you drink that stuff...

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Originally posted by ampburner lol, I feel like that about a lot of ppl I meet / see around me. Not only in clubs, but in everyday life, traffic, at the mall etc... A lot of times I feel like Michael Douglas in that movie " Falling down" hehe lol

LOL

I totally agree!

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Originally posted by TiestoInTheMix btw, is it true that SHY guys are MORE romantic in general?

Yeah, interesting question!

So basicly, your way is staring and smiling at girls...?! (''.)

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Originally posted by eXeTik So basicly, your way is staring and smiling at girls...?! (''.)

yup, that's all I need

yeah, the (very) few times that i've ever walked up to a chic, i've always made sure that she isn't with anyone, and if she isn't, i try and surreptitiously check out her fingers to see if she has a ring on

even after speaking i try and find out as quickly as possible without sounding desperate (lol) if she is married or otherwise with sum1 else