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| quote: | Originally posted by occrider
I predict a river of tears for your loss.
If you have a problem with her being "too" attractive than you actually have a problem with your self-confidence and don't think you're attractive enough for her. There are two ways to resolve this ... one is to find an uglier girlfriend that you think would be more suitable for you. The other is to come to terms with the fact that despite your perceived insecurities you actually have some redeeming qualities that are attractive to her that you fail to take into consideration with your doubts. I would opt for path #2. |
yea, what he said.
it's ok lira, i go through the same thing with my boyfriend. he's pretty damn hot...and he's thought about modeling too just because he's in grad school and doesn't want to work but needs money. i'm sure he could easily get a few gigs here and there and when he was seriously thinking about it, i thought, "nooo! you're going to be surrounded by hot models all day and probably get hit on left and right"
it made me feel insecure. i'm pretty confident about my looks. i know i'm no damn victoria's secret model, but i'm content knowing that i'm just "girl next door" pretty, but i'm human, and i get stuck feeling insecure sometimes when i sit on the bed and watch my bf dry off after a shower and i can't find one fucking flaw on him and i think, "damn...how'd i end up with him?" insecurity happens to the best of us.
from what i've seen, you're good looking and ur very smart too, so you are definitely a great catch. she's lucky too
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| quote: | Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone |
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