lol, so, a girl says she is feeling 'guilty' because she is 'dating' two guys at the same time and that her girlfriends tell her that's fine and normal -- aka going on 'dates' with different ppl prior to getting into an official relationship with anyone. I agree. I dig deeper and find out in the past month she's been having sex with a recent ex and some other new guy who is going through a divorce -> neither of these guys knows the other exists.

So, I tell her she is having casual sex with two dudes and is not "dating". *awkward silence* "...yeah,I guess that's true".

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If she's "dating" multiple people then she is still technically single and "shopping" around for a possible partner. As long as she is clear with each one of them that it's not exclusive, then I don't see the problem.

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Originally posted by Intellekshual If she's "dating" multiple people then she is still technically single and "shopping" around for a possible partner. As long as she is clear with each one of them that it's not exclusive, then I don't see the problem.

I think Del's point is that she's getting together with these men exclusively for sex, which is fucking, not dating, the later of which may include sex but is generally not undertaking in the exclusive pursuit of same.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

Yeah it's fucking, not dating.

fucking is when your penis enters into the vagina.

everything else is friendship

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I think Del's point is that she's getting together with these men exclusively for sex, which is fucking, not dating, the later of which may include sex but is generally not undertaking in the exclusive pursuit of same.

Ah, well then, it is just fucking if she's meeting up with them exclusively for sex. "Dating" is going out on dates with someone to get to know them better and see what develops. As you said, that may include sex, but there is potential for a possible relationship with that person.

Del, how old is this chick?

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the question is del...Why arent you fucking her?

GATOR'S BITCHES BETTER BE WEARING JIMMIES!
GATOR DON'T PLAY NO SHIT!

I dated dell's mom pretty hard a few times.

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Originally posted by Jon_Snow I dated dell's mom pretty hard a few times.

Do you have like a condition where you add extra letters to peoples names? Are you seriously that fucking dense?

ONE L in DEL. ONE E in DE.

FFS what is wrong with you!? It was literally typed two posts above yours!

So the TLDR version is: I know a girl that likes to fuck. Amirite?

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Originally posted by Jon_Snow I dated dell's mom pretty hard a few times.

You were around when Del's Mom was 15?

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