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pnuemo
ALBATROSS



Registered: Nov 2000
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help people... ;(

i need help... i've known this girl for 3 years now... we've been good friends... and she dated one of my friends for like a year and a half... they broke up and what not... and she straight told me one day, that she would be with me, except for my friend (her ex). i was like, fuck that.... well, it's been almost a year since that, and i dont see much of her now, but i really do love this girl... i just dont want to ruin anything... because when we do hang out... its fun as hell... any suggestions for my WEAK ass?

Old Post Nov-01-2002 16:34  United States
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jp
Retired tranceaddict



Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Holland

Let love shine in your heart

Old Post Nov-01-2002 16:38  Netherlands
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Fir3start3r
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Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Toronto, ON, Canada

Exactly...weak.
Go for it.
If your friend has a problem with it, I suggest he move on with his life and get his own.
Getting jelious about an old gf is just emotional immaturity on his part.


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pnuemo
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i dotn care at all about my 'friend'... i want nothign to do with him... he's not a friend anymore... so i dont care about that...i've had this go bad before... i get into that 'friend' zone... and i'm fucked...

Old Post Nov-01-2002 16:52  United States
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pnuemo
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and firestarter... you dont need to kick me while im done...i know im weak, you dont have to reitterate...

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Fir3start3r
Armin Acolyte



Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Toronto, ON, Canada

quote:
Originally posted by pnuemo
and firestarter... you dont need to kick me while im done...i know im weak, you dont have to reitterate...


So what's the problem?
Go for it...


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The grey rain-curtain of this world rolls back, and all change to silver glass...and then you see it...
...white shores...and beyond...the far green country under a swift sunrise."

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MisterOpus1
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Registered: Dec 2001
Location: Kansas City

Kinda reminds me how I snagged my wife, except her X was not a friend of mine whatsoever (and pretty damn looney in his own sense). Life is about taking chances. You never know what might happen. You just might grab the woman of your dreams. I was fortunate enough to have this happen to me, and I regret nothing about chances being taken like that. She is my everything...


Then again, you might get kicked in the nuts. So wear a cup.


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Old Post Nov-01-2002 17:57  United States
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pnuemo
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good call... but see, i've been burned like this before... i know i wont find out unless i try...
quote:
Then again, you might get kicked in the nuts. So wear a cup.

thanks for that... needed a laugh...

Old Post Nov-01-2002 18:28  United States
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Rhythm
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Registered: Oct 2002
Location: Indy

Hey Pnuemo,
I've been in the same exact situation, and I didn't make my move. I regreted it, but now I'm over it. But I am still left wondering if I had made the move if it would have worked. I now have determined if I am in that position again, I will make the move. You can only hold back your love for so long dude, and you don't want to wait till it's too late and you are forever marked as just "a friend" (as girls tend to do with guys). Hope this helps.

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Essential1
Supreme tranceaddict



Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Brampton

I'll qoute myself on this, as I live by this qoute:

quote:
It's better to regret doing something than it is to regret not doing it.


Just tell her how you feel, but make it clear that even if she doesn't feel the same way you want to keep what u guys have. U talk about her like she's a really sweet girl, so I don't think you would have to worry about rejection or loss of a friend.


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Phu
Mix Master



Registered: Oct 2000
Location: Vancouver

Just do it and go for it.

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JM
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Registered: Dec 2000
Location: Seattle, USA

It's better to regret doing something than it is to regret not doing it.

this ^^ one is good!

>JM<

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