interesting night, one for the ladies to give advice on id say,
well, last night i went to the theatre with a very good friend of mine, nothing big, her sister and 2 of her sisters friends went as well, and it was a really good night. then i went back to her place and we were sitting on the couch and i asked her to my graduation dance (which i had planned to do) but also i kinda asked her out (which i hadnt planned to do), totally expecting to get the usuall "i dont want to risk the friendship" speech, i was really taken aback when she said she liked me too, but there was a problem that she thought one of her really good friends, who i have a bit of a history with (nothing ever happened between us, but i liked her for ages and she messed with my head a little), she thought she had started to like me a little. the question is, is that just an excuse or is she being genuine? later when i was leaving we kissed and it was really nice! but i cant help but feeling shes just being too nice to say no.
end of rant.
ladies (and fellas), wot do u make of it?
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Mar-22-2003 11:42
Rememberence_
James Packer
Registered: Oct 2002
Location: HXTA #6
It's hard to say from what you've told us mate... but it seems like a weak excuse (as in, sounds like it isn't an excuse), especially after she's said she likes you. I say forget about her friend who has, after all, messed with your head. You like each other, give it a shot. Good luck to you both.
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Mar-23-2003 01:17
JudgeJulez
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Aug 2002
Location: SOAS!
springtime's here, and love is in the air....ahhhhhh
Mar-23-2003 01:19
KaPs
tranceaddict in training
Registered: Mar 2003
Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico
i don't kiss people just cause i feel sorry for them
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Mar-23-2003 01:32
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasilia, Brazil
quote:
Originally posted by KaPs
i don't kiss people just cause i feel sorry for them
This is a good point... what's your doubt, mate? She's said (and showed) everything you needed to know... it's up to you now Show her that she's more important to you than whatever happened in the past with any of her friends
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Mar-23-2003 01:37
Paula
quietly
Registered: Jan 2003
Location: Washington, D.C.
It's really not that complicated. You're not currently "involved" with her friend, correct? Well if you aren't proceed with the girl (the one that kissed you) thats there. There is absolutely NO point in hanging on to the past if there's nothing there.
Make sense? Don;t waste more time , more of your life, worrying about little things like that.
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I say you go with the girl you revealed your feelings to and one you kissed. The other girl messed w your head (doesn't matter if she MAY like you or not, she had the chance but messed it up). Stick with how things are. Goodluck!
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Mar-23-2003 02:57
LKD
Omni-peasant
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Its June 18th, 2005, I'm at the Skybar
man this is as easy as counthing the digits on ur hand
so girl#1 u ask out says she likes u...she wouldnt have said that if she didnt and was gonna makeup that other thing about her friend (girl #2)
now #1 mightve jsut been concerned because #2 and her may soon drift apart with u being involved with #1...
a policy as u already know among guys is never to date an ex gf or ex crush of a friend of urs..i dunno if thats the case with girls but if #2 messed with ur head and nothing ever happened, fuck it..go for #1..shes being honest with u....especially if she kissed u..
Registered: Mar 2002
Location: Melbourne, Australia
quote:
Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
man this is as easy as counthing the digits on ur hand
so girl#1 u ask out says she likes u...she wouldnt have said that if she didnt and was gonna makeup that other thing about her friend (girl #2)
now #1 mightve jsut been concerned because #2 and her may soon drift apart with u being involved with #1...
a policy as u already know among guys is never to date an ex gf or ex crush of a friend of urs..i dunno if thats the case with girls but if #2 messed with ur head and nothing ever happened, fuck it..go for #1..shes being honest with u....especially if she kissed u..
Check out the relationship doctor.
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Mar-23-2003 04:10
LKD
Omni-peasant
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Its June 18th, 2005, I'm at the Skybar
quote:
Originally posted by Prototrance
Check out the relationship doctor.
hey..im just doin the internship right now....get the PHD in a few years
Ahh easy man.. u like the 1st girl.. for her ... she's the one that you kinda liked.. and besides... you asked her not that other chick!
Hell if you kissed then whats the problem.. i bet you she is thinking about it right now...
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interesting night, one for the ladies to give advice on id say,
Show her that she's more important to you than whatever happened in the past with any of her friends 
