|
| quote: | Originally posted by kirbtastic
what a well thought out response..arbiter ur a smart person. okay so how bout this...does the word nigga carry a negative connataion still, even though black people use it in a lovingly manner. |
Unfortunately, it does, because a lot of people are still very sensitive about racism. While black people frequently use it amongst themselves, they feel they can do so because they know the other black people aren't racist (at least against blacks). But when a white person uses the word, they have to wonder if that person is a racist or not. Now personally, as a minority, if someone really thought they were superior to me, I'd rather they express themselves honestly than put on some kind of facade and pretend they thought of me as being equal. But I understand that I may be unusual in that preference.
I would probably refrain from using the word nigga unless it was with someone I knew very well and who I knew wouldn't feel hurt by my using it. But I think in general it's a sad reflection of our society that we have become so sensitive that a mere word can cause us so much angst.
Regards,
Arbiter
|