Ok im 20years old i work 3 jobs restaurant, dog grooming, dj and i go to school....... I was with this girl the other night and well....i wasnt able to perform.....how fucked up is that......20 years old and cant have sex... Im depressed and i think im gonna see the doctor. On another note i was completely sober and i havent done any drugs in over year and the girl was sooooo hot.... I'm just wondering has anyone else had the problem or am i the only pathetic fool that has had this at such a young age... you guys cant understand how depressing this is...

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"The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes"

Sounds strange, i must confess, i never have had this problem

well, that depends on when was the last time you did anything.

if you hadn't done anythign for a while, then ya, it woudl eb normal to be nervous. the girl coulda intimidated you if she's so hot.


only time i don't get hard is if i start becoming unattracted to a girl, something bugs me, parents in next room etc.

can u jerk off ok?

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yeah normaly im hard 24hrs a day..... I never have ploblems but since lastnight i cant get hard i took off work/school today went to the beach relaxed came home watched some porn and no go...god fucking damnt and the worst part the girl thinks shes unatractive to me and its her fault.....god fucking damnt this is the worst 24hrs of my entire life....

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"The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes"

he man... you better tell her that its not her fault....
hope it all works out well for you. and that you won't lose her because of this shit...

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oh and yeah its been bout a year since the last girl...

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"The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes"

Well any number of things could have caused it initially - stress is probably the most likely explanation. Now it's probably mostly just psychological. If you can, try to stop worrying about it so much. Dealing with psychological problems is hard, even once you understand that the problem is all in your head. But, with confidence and determination, it's nothing you can't overcome.

Best of luck,

Arbiter

well her and i are gonna go take our dogs for a walk down the beach right now. and im gonna stay the night at her house again......I'm not sure i even wanna try again right now..... It's soo fucking embarrassing and depressing... I feel pity for anyone else with the same problem this has to be the worst thing in anyones life. I mean you never would think this shit would happen to you...then it does.

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"The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes"

Get pissed and watch some porn.

That should clear the limp dick problemo for starters.

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eat some tuna, its all abt protein and shit

then watch some porn and see if u get any response

if not then i suggest downloading some new material

if so, then enjoy the moment and give ur girl a call

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If u never had these kinda problems before, then it's either stress or psychological thing... That happens sometimes, u need to relax, and try not to think about it. All your panicing is only making it worse.

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