Dating a co-worker? There is this girl I work with. She and I seem to connect when we meet at work, however I do not know if she would be interested in getting together after work for drinks or something. I have never really asked.
There was one time when I did sort of ask her, but she said she "had to work late". Ever since then she seems to have kept her distance.
Going back to the original question, what are your thoughts on dating a co-worker?
May-30-2004 19:45
Mr.Mystery
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Registered: Dec 2001
Location: Vantaa
Uh... I'm kinda doing it now...
I'm all for it as long as you can act normally in work.
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Location: Underground Pirate Station [JSRF]
I see nothing wrong with dating a Co-worker
HIT THAT SHIT!!
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May-30-2004 20:18
starglider
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Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Montreal, Canada
Re: Is this right...?
quote:
Originally posted by kindbud
There was one time when I did sort of ask her, but she said she "had to work late". Ever since then she seems to have kept her distance.
1- make sure your company doesn't have a no fraternizing policy.
2- why would you want to go out with someone that's avoiding you?
3- if she says no, will this affect your attitude/ behavior at work?
Oh, and hit it if you can. Office sex rocks.
Edit: that last part was a joke. I wouldn't date someone I worked with. It's just not a good professional way to conduct yourself at your place of employment. It causes problems more often than not.
May-30-2004 20:37
monoxide
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Location: somewhere over the rainbow
just hit it, make a video tape, give it to your boss.
maybe he wants to hit it too.
success = promotion!
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Originally posted by kindbud
There was one time when I did sort of ask her, but she said she "had to work late". Ever since then she seems to have kept her distance.
i'm with starglider on this one. im pretty sure that was her way of saying she's not interested in you that way.
but do this - dont change your demeanor. stay the same way, make her laugh, and if you work together long enuff, she might just come around. it's happened to me, and it might happen to you too...you never know
May-30-2004 20:46
DR86
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quote:
Originally posted by monoxide
success = promotion!
and no success = this poor shmo losing his job and this going on his permanent record as sexual harassment! wooo, partay!
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May-30-2004 20:52
monoxide
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Registered: Aug 2003
Location: somewhere over the rainbow
quote:
Originally posted by DR86
and no success = this poor shmo losing his job and this going on his permanent record as sexual harassment! wooo, partay!
mhhhhm, then he could think of a professional "hitter" job. maybe one day he could hit u too...
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May-30-2004 20:57
KilldaDJ
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