Like your friend is having a super bad day and like shit hit the fan (yet you don't fucking realize this) and you ask an innocent question to that person and WHAM!!!!!!!! you get it....you honestly cared enough to check in and maybe it was your fault but maybe theirs and then like WHAM!!!....you get all this anger and bullshit or just the plain hint that you are adding salt to the wounds.
my question, why does this always happen when you talk with women..pms? or genetic makeup or maybe just your own idiocy
May-24-2004 23:49
torontotrance
I hath returned
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Toronto
oh if someone just realized my day has been shit...
my response...YUP
May-24-2004 23:53
trancEyes22
but then there's you..
Registered: Feb 2003
Location: district of corruption
well newsflash, this doesn't always happen with just women. i've had plenty of men snap at me when they are having a bad day. it's natural- its called anger displacement...the person who gets attacked isn't the reason for the persons anger...they are just the only one there to take it out on. usually in my experiences, the angered person will apologize later after realizing what they did.
cheer up andy!!
May-24-2004 23:55
smokeape
Lowland Trance Addict
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Heart of Dixie
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May-24-2004 23:56
torontotrance
I hath returned
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Toronto
who says I'm pissed off?
I'm fine...just I care too much for others (newsflash to the ta folk, who all think that I am some faceless SOB monster).
May-24-2004 23:57
trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE
Re: Ever do this?
quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
Like your friend is having a super bad day and like shit hit the fan (yet you don't fucking realize this) and you ask an innocent question to that person and WHAM!!!!!!!! you get it....you honestly cared enough to check in and maybe it was your fault but maybe theirs and then like WHAM!!!....you get all this anger and bullshit or just the plain hint that you are adding salt to the wounds.
my question, why does this always happen when you talk with women..pms? or genetic makeup or maybe just your own idiocy
You posted our argument? You left out a lot of details.
Are you calling me an idiot now?
May-24-2004 23:59
trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE
quote:
Originally posted by trancEyes22
well newsflash, this doesn't always happen with just women. i've had plenty of men snap at me when they are having a bad day. it's natural- its called anger displacement...the person who gets attacked isn't the reason for the persons anger...they are just the only one there to take it out on. usually in my experiences, the angered person will apologize later after realizing what they did.
cheer up andy!!
I didn't snap at him. Like I said...details details.
May-25-2004 00:00
torontotrance
I hath returned
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Toronto
who said that was you? lmao (this has happened with 3 people today)
I was talking hypothetically here anyway
who the hell I blamed anyone about anything. I figured since it happened 3 times with 3 different women today that I would talk about.
of course I failed to mention it was my own idiocy 2 out of the 3 times.
May-25-2004 00:01
torontotrance
I hath returned
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Toronto
case and point, I've been a complete fuckup with things today. So I'm just going to hide for the rest of May 24th (then I can't do anymore harm!!!!!)
May-25-2004 00:02
Rodrico
TA Desperado
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Toronto, Canada
Andy is not Rico...Suave...
May-25-2004 00:03
trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE
quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
case and point, I've been a complete fuckup with things today. So I'm just going to hide for the rest of May 24th (then I can't do anymore harm!!!!!)
I think that's a good idea.
May-25-2004 00:03
torontotrance
I hath returned
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Toronto
and then the other pissy people can't get mad anymore at me.