All my life i have friends who copy me! the same clothes, the same hair, etc.... I'm sick of it!!!
Now My best friend copies me in everything, even the way i talk ( my jokes and stuff)... SOS
what should i do to make it stop!
Tried to talk to her, giving hints... doesn't help...
I drives me nutz!!!!
Dec-15-2003 19:52
Mebot
Maverick
Registered: Nov 2002
Location: Seattle
copyright your style then when they dress up like you again sue them
Dec-15-2003 19:58
yujie__
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2001
Location: Somewhere over the Rainbow
tell them you will get the RIAA on them for copyright infringement
Dec-15-2003 20:07
Ste
Planet Zogg Addict
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Outer Dementia
Re: What to do when a friend copies YOU?
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Originally posted by TANYA
All my life i have friends who copy me! the same clothes, the same hair, etc.... I'm sick of it!!!
Now My best friend copies me in everything, even the way i talk ( my jokes and stuff)... SOS
what should i do to make it stop!
Tried to talk to her, giving hints... doesn't help...
I drives me nutz!!!!
i think your copying her but youre in denial.
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Dec-15-2003 20:15
jp
Retired tranceaddict
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Holland
Your friend admires you, and he/she wants to be like you. A little of that is a normal part of growing up. We learn by imitating other people.
But taken to extremes, this habit can be most distressing. I would venture that your friend has very little self-esteem, and too much esteem for you. You like yourself well enough to enjoy your own style. Your friend would be better off copying how you feel about yourself inside, instead of copying how you look and act on the outside.
You cannot repair this person's ego, but you can help by letting him/her know in little ways that you think he/she is perfectly wonderful just as he/she is. Be most curious as to what he/she likes and does not like. Allow him/her to discover that he/she does have most excellent opinions of his/her own.
Dec-15-2003 20:15
KilldaDJ
birth.school.trance.death
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: tranceaddict wants to know your location
See responses to the "annoying little brother" thread.
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Dec-15-2003 22:38
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
it annoys me too, things i buy - my friends want to buy, things i say - my friends say. makes me feel like i'm living in a world of clones.
just gotta ignore it, that's all.
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Dec-15-2003 22:55
'mju:zik
boomchikhaboom
Registered: Apr 2003
Location: Orangethumb Land, currently TO
Re: What to do when a friend copies YOU?
quote:
Originally posted by TANYA
All my life i have friends who copy me! the same clothes, the same hair, etc.... I'm sick of it!!!
Now My best friend copies me in everything, even the way i talk ( my jokes and stuff)... SOS
what should i do to make it stop!
Tried to talk to her, giving hints... doesn't help...
I drives me nutz!!!!
ususally ppl who spend a lot of time together start acting like each other. maybe she doesn't notice what shes doin u kno?