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To party or not to party? (again) your opinions
In one of my classes, we had to go see a speaker at another campus. So, this 'hot' girl that I have been talking to off and on asks me to give her a ride, since her car overheated the day before. She could have asked anybody else, including this other guy that I 'thought' she was good friends with, and the teacher, who was offering rides to anyone who didn't want to drive. But she asked me, and I was like... "Yeah!"... I couldn't say "And what do I get out of it?" since I know she has a boyfriend.
On the drive down there, she talked about herself and her life almost nonstop(I did not interrupt her and only commented here and there on stuff she said)... I barely brought up anything about me. She was talking about her upcoming birthday party and how it was going to be all that. I thought it went pretty well, with plenty of laughter, giggles, and maintaining eye contact(well with as much as I could put in while still driving).
After the listening to the speaker, she rode with me back to her apartment. On the way, I had to ask, "Did you want to stop and get a bite to eat?"... and she said no. She told me her boyfriend was probably waiting for her and they were going to go grocery shopping or something." I shrugged and was like, "Ok."
Once we got to the apartment, curiousity got the best of me so I asked, "So, who do you live with?" And she tells me her boyfriend. Well, she doesn't exactly say, "My boyfriend" she just mentions his name. Does that signify anything? Then as she gets out of my car, she says, "You have to come to my birthday party! You MUST come!" I asked, "It's going to be that good?" She nods. "Yeah, you should definitely come," and closes the door.
So, should I go when the time comes? Or should I tell her I have other plans(even a date-even if I don't really have one then), instead? Maybe I could say, "I'm sorry but I can't make it because I have a HOT DATE that night!" lol
She has a live in boyfriend, so I'm assuming it must be a serious relationship... but she doesn't work(she's at school full-time), so I'm guessing the boyfriend is pretty much paying for it all... or her parents give her money.
...same girl as in this thread...
http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...ht=sausage+fest
...and she wants to hang out next weekend, too. I don't know if the boyfriend will hang out with us(more than likely, yes). If he is, I will say to her, "Too bad but I got other plans." 
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