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diffusion
never look back



Registered: Mar 2001
Location: Norway and Surfers:D
I just broke up with my girlfriend

Damn this sucks so hard. She was so insanely in love for me.
I was addicted to her as well... then why did I?

She, my latino princess, lives in Ecuador. Mixing her culture and mine resulted in a major clash. You see in order for her to be accepted as having a boyfriend, without being stamped out as "USED TRASH", we needed to get married.

She really wanted this, however I didn't. Can you imagine getting married when you're 20 years old? No matter how good the girl is, I'd give it serious doubts.

Now, why am I writing this at all? I guess if someone cared to answer to this, I'd be grateful:
Would you have dumped her? It doesn't matter, I just did, but anyways, here I go...

Old Post Nov-23-2003 20:09  Norway
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Chris Crossland
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Registered: Jul 2003
Location: London

See what girls do they cause problems


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diffusion
never look back



Registered: Mar 2001
Location: Norway and Surfers:D

yeah, and still, we need them so much


damn, I feel like I am such an asshole right now...


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Old Post Nov-23-2003 20:33  Norway
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DjDeComp
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Registered: Jul 2002
Location: New Jersey, USA

Yes, my chance to go on a date with her j/k


you shouldnt of broken up IMO
Sounds like you guys were deeply in love


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nekholm
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Registered: Jan 2001
Location: .fi

I feel sorry for you. I'm having some problems with my girlfriend right now too. She has some problems, and she doesn't know if she wants to be in a relationship right now.. Oh how I wish it were all good..


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elena
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Registered: Jan 2002
Location: nyc

im srroy to hear that you had to make such a drastic decision.
but im not sure that its the ecuadorian culture that you should blame, sounds more like some high strung family-set rules/tradition.

getting married at such an early age doesnt neccessarily mean that youll end up screwed over for the rest of your life but i think that its such an important decision that it couldve waited until both of you were done were done with school and financially stable.

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Registered: Sep 2003
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Re: I just broke up with my girlfriend

It really sounds as though you are doing what is best for yourself even though it is a painful thing to do.

Sometimes, its really hard to set aside your feelings and your emotions and make a tough decision. I respect you for being man enough to do that.

Maybe the two of you can stay in touch and be friends so in the future, when you're ready for something more...

However it goes, *hugs to help you feel better!


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diffusion
never look back



Registered: Mar 2001
Location: Norway and Surfers:D

Thanks for your thoughts on this guys/gals(?)... I really apprechiated it... Seems like you don't think it was a major error to do that... Anyways, I thought a lot about it, and I'm clean of it now.

I don't have to worry about ALL the challenges that would rise if we were to marry.



And really, alcohol helps, clubbing also works as a temporary remedy for the pain.


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Old Post Nov-23-2003 21:08  Norway
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Orbax
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Registered: Apr 2002
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Women are nuts. Im suprised that world population is still growing.

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Fundamental
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Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Scotland

Damn man, sounds really harsh... I think you did the right thing though. Hope everything goes well for you.


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DigiNut
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Registered: Dec 2002
Location: Toronto, Self-proclaimed Centre of the Universe

My sister got engaged when she was 20... the marriage date was later though, I think she was 22... it's not THAT big a deal if you're ready to make the commitment.

It all depends on your personal situation. My brother-in-law was in med school, so his future was pretty secure. It's not really the age that matters, it's just whether or not you're ready to settle down.

So, I can't really say what I'd have done in your position, and I don't think anyone else can either. It depends on what stage you're in with your life right now. Possibly, you're just afraid of serious commitment. Or, possibly (I'd say likely, since most people haven't planned their futures at age 20), you did what you had to do.


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Vivid Boy
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O

get over her...tell her ull marry her but u have to fuck her in THE ASS and the break up with her move to the next piece of trahs

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