Dunno if I have to wait or not... well better if I explain the story...

Last 2 weeks I've known a hot girl older than me! well from last week I'm with her and all in our relation works (we have talked a lot, done many things together...) but we haven't had sex yet, we've been dating only for one week so I dunno if it's too early for having sex. I want do it but we haven't had the moment for do it and also she told me that all in our relation happened too fast; we met just two weeks ago, and been as a couple just last week so next step is sex... but dunno if wait a bit more or...
Also I'm a bit scared, she is older than me and for what she told me
she has more experience in sex than me so I dunno if sex will work like other things in our recent relation.

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a week? lol

yea i'd wait a little bit if you really like her and if you think she is girlfriend material.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

i've waited months...if you care...you'll respect that persons needs...

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Originally posted by Slylee a week? lol yea i'd wait a little bit if you really like her and if you think she is girlfriend material.

yeah a week is too early... and I don't think too it's a serious relation yet but this week has been really intense and seems for me like I've been more time with her than one week...
And when I meet with her all of my fuckin' friends ask me: Have you fucked her today?? so I have pressure...

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i think you should wait...once you have sex with the person, things can jack the emotion rate by 110%. like you said, you only been dating this girl for a week or so..also, you don't have to feel insecure just coz she is older than you and have more sexual partners...it really depends on the individual and how you connect with each other. you also have to respect her wishes, if she thinks that its too fast ot have sex, you must respect her wishes or else she will think that you are only there for sex or are you? lol jk


cheers
indy

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get to know her first or else your relationship will be based only on sex. There will be no affection or anything, you will just think about getting laid all the time.

its a stupid relationship (if you can even call it that) where you have to rely on sex. Sure its great and all, but before you guys become like rabbits and fuck all the time, try and wait and make sure you want this relationship to last..



unless of course you just want to use her

fuck your friends...don't worry about trying to have bragging rights or something...

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Originally posted by Mebot unless of course you just want to use her

of course not, for this I would do what I've been doing till now; having one night relations... I'm sick of that, with her I've felt the real love of a girl

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Originally posted by Floorfiller fuck your friends...don't worry about trying to have bragging rights or something...

yeah fuck they! one had to wait one year before fuck with her girlfriend so... but he says me that my girl is older and for sure she wants now.


BTW thanks all for the suggestions, really apreciated!

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Originally posted by UnBracKo of course not, for this I would do what I've been doing till now; having one night relations... I'm sick of that, with her I've felt the real love of a girl

then wait a little bit and let her know that you appreciate her for who she is, and not whats in her pants. Girls (probably*) appreciate it more to find out that a guy is more interested in them, than their sex organs.


* i base this on all the magazines like maxim and stuff and FHM that say you have to get to know a girls personality before you sleep with them. chicks dig it. Why would maxim lie to me?

err i've had sex with guys before in the first night/week of dating and the relationship wasn't damaged at all... i really don't care, it doesn't freak me out, and just like it doesn't matter to me, it really doesn't matter to some other chicks. but since she gave you the whole "happened so fast" idea i guess she might not be that type... tread carefully and take it slower...

why are you such in a hurry??? I've waited a year!





oh yeah and



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