So i meet a girl 2 year ago at a party, we got on like a house on fire and she came on to me, but me how has been about abit know she was a big user of men so i pushed her away, for 1 year and about 3 months i would see her about, she would chat to me and i keeped pushing her away, she gived up and i thort that was that.

9 months ago i was at work and she walks in to the kichen asking for the manger as she now has a job hear, and i was like . Now she is very hot, and i know you all thinking why i did not hit it, but i know her type well (less i thort i did anyway).

Anyway the 2 months before she walked into the kichen, i used my best mates really badly and there cort on to it and told me to fuck off, and this destroyed me. I know why i used them becoue i hated myself at that time and i got a kick from it.

So i felt really down at the time and when the girl started working she made me feel alot better for myself, and was very understanding, we whent out all the time and had a good time. We both agreed at the start that nothing would happen between us as we both would end up destroying each other as we both cant keep faithfull and it just would not work out.

For the past 9 months we have got close, we have follen out alot, but we always end up freinds. But things are not as there seem anymore. She is blacklisted and cant get a phone, so i got her one and asked her to pay me by cash, she has not played a penny, she now has 2 jobs and having alot of famliy problem (her mum is ill and she has a disabled 19 year old sister which is mentaly 3 years old) and has no money becoue shes paying for things her family needs.

Well i now cant offerd her phone bills so i asked for the sim and she sead she would give it me, i dint beliveher so i stole it from her, she whent nuts and got it back, she texted me saying "if i whant to play games lets play", so i blocked the sim 2 days ago. She has been very quite and looking very upset.

You see this girl is a user. Everyone at work is saying if i dont watch it she will use me, and telling not to bother with her.

she ows me 290pounds...

have follen in and out of love with her many of times...

her mates say she is in love with me, but will not admit it....

she has gone throw my phone to see if girls text me...

she looked very pissed off when i told her i got numbers of 3 lass the other day...

apparlntly she has told girls that she is my girlfreind so they dont hit on me....

I asked her what her realy feelings are for me and she hung up, but she phoned back saying nothing will everhappen between us..

My head is messed up as i could love this girl, if she would admit it and if i could belive one thing...

SHE IS NOT USEING ME

I really do think she is useing me and its destroying everthing.

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Originally posted by Arbiter You're impressively stupid, that's for sure. I'd give you advice, but I cannot in good conscience take any action which could potentially increase the odds that you'll reproduce. I'm sorry.

Ya, she's using you. get away from her.

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Dude, learn grammar and how to spell correctly. And yes, she is using you. However, she will not admit that she is falling for you. Move on and get on with another girl.

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Originally posted by jonSun Ya, she's using you. get away from her.

Are you going to tell me your resoning?

Or did you just gess

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Originally posted by Arbiter You're impressively stupid, that's for sure. I'd give you advice, but I cannot in good conscience take any action which could potentially increase the odds that you'll reproduce. I'm sorry.

she's sleeping with your cousin, your dad, and probably your sister too.

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Originally posted by Ibizadreamer AG Dude, learn grammar and how to spell correctly. And yes, she is using you. However, she will not admit that she is falling for you. Move on and get on with another girl.

Dude, i know my grammer is bad, have tryed my best, anyway i have been trying to move on as i have been going out and picking up girls and getting they numbers, but i work with her, and its hard to stop thinking about her, even tho she is useing me, becoue i know she does care about me alot, how that works i dont know

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Originally posted by Arbiter You're impressively stupid, that's for sure. I'd give you advice, but I cannot in good conscience take any action which could potentially increase the odds that you'll reproduce. I'm sorry.

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Originally posted by LiveTheDream Are you going to tell me your resoning? Or did you just gess

I didnt just gess . From what your saying about the phone & all & her friends are in on it too. So dont truth them either.

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Originally posted by jonSun I didnt just gess . From what your saying about the phone & all & her friends are in on it too. So dont truth them either.

That would make alot of sence, even tho she is very too faced to the two am onabout.

ps she was mates with them 3 year ago, but just started to hang around them of late

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Originally posted by Arbiter You're impressively stupid, that's for sure. I'd give you advice, but I cannot in good conscience take any action which could potentially increase the odds that you'll reproduce. I'm sorry.

For fecks sake man you are almost 21! Learn to spell, reading that was like trying to break the bloody Da Vinci code!

PS. Break up with her
PPS. Feck is Irish and not an incorrect spelling

You should re-read what you just wrote. It's pretty obvious she's using you.

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Originally posted by fbgdavidson For fecks sake man you are almost 21! Learn to spell, reading that was like trying to break the bloody Da Vinci code! PS. Break up with her PPS. Feck is Irish and not an incorrect spelling

Am not with her??

PS i love how narrowed mindind some people can be to think everone can learn something just as easly as they can, have you not thort that i have tryed most of my life?? i gived it up as i was progressing a hell of alot faster with other subjects.

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Originally posted by Arbiter You're impressively stupid, that's for sure. I'd give you advice, but I cannot in good conscience take any action which could potentially increase the odds that you'll reproduce. I'm sorry.

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH You should re-read what you just wrote. It's pretty obvious she's using you.

Yea, at lest she cant phone me and cry down the phone, like the last time i told her how much i hated her, which i dint.

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Originally posted by Arbiter You're impressively stupid, that's for sure. I'd give you advice, but I cannot in good conscience take any action which could potentially increase the odds that you'll reproduce. I'm sorry.