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| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
In spite of this being your opinion, there's no reason to expect others to live the same way and/or dealing with life the way you want them to.
You're the one who thinks she's hot and, as harsh as it may sound, this doesn't concern her. If she were ugly, would it be alright to cut herself then? Probably she doesn't even think she's attractive, or it doesn't matter for her. |
So what your saying is that you encourage negative thinking? that you shouldnt be comfortable with yourself because somebody somewhere might not like how you look ? Happiness start withyourself, if you feel good about yourself, people will feel god about you, even if you cant please all of them, you shouldnt even give a fuck about that.. what matters is how YOU feel about who you are, right?
But the fact here that she is, lets face it, above average considering all the fat and plain ugly people out there so that just enhances my point of view. She'll probably realise how ungrateful and stupid she is when she'll be 70..
| quote: | | Originally posted by Lira I wouldn't label "cutting oneself" as an act of cowardice if I were you. As a matter of fact, I wouldn't even be able to do it myself (because of the pain actually), and because I, currently, don't see a reason to do such thing. If you think you've dealt with your problems in a better way, good for you, but censoring others is both a sample of how intolerant you might be with different realities and/or it may show how weak your "solutions" were as you need to resort to this sort of emotional shields in order not to do the same thing. |
Hmm ok I didnt mean cowardly in a litteral way but I was talking about her attitude towards life in general. Shes avoiding her problems. Considering there are people with no legs, blind, sick, with cancer, who cant even eat once a day, and some of them find way for happiness... dont you think this normal women couldnt do the same? this is where the ungratefullness kicks in. Plus, why do it in front of the camera? next thing you know she could be one very daring attention whore....
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
She's not whining about not having what she wants, she doesn't seem to want anything at all. The first thing she said was that she cuts her pubic area when she feels ashamed... where exactly have you got the idea that "she's whining about not having what she wants" from? |
well, if she feels ashamed, dont you think its pretty obvious that its because somewhere somehow there is something she wants and doesnt have? regardless if its something materialistic like money, or something more abstract like love, happiness, etc..
Life is mostly what you make of it, our subconscious is a very powerful thing and pretty much rules how we see life... if you condition it with negative thinking and behavior, well you are bent to live in your dark cloud.
This girl is obviously making it worse for herself by acting like that, she is avoiding obstacles instead of confronting them and getting over it. Its just the same as people who do drugs and alcohol for the same reason, or even the most common things some people will do to escape their everyday life (eating, watching tv, playing games, etc...).. some will do it for leisure, wich is ok, but others will be overconpensating for a lack somewhere else, instead of properly dealing with it and filling the gap
regardless how hard it might be, its always possible to make way for happiness
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