since you are a girl, you can pretty much throw ur self at him, 95% says hell go for it, it all depends, whaat you want from him, how you want it to end, this is a toughie,

if i knew it wasnt gonna work out, i wouldnt pursue fourther and disance myself like hes doing, but thats my persoanlity with women.

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from your story it sounds like he is just bad with girls, if you really want it to work you have to work at it. Some guys, even though they like a girl, will take the easy way out and avoid unless you make it clear and easy for them.


So if you like him lay it out. but don't move toooooo quickly, or youll scare him off.

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Originally posted by wrmsign the guy is horrible at taking any initiative at all. Since today is the last day that I will ever see him again unless something happens, do I go for it anyway.. or do i take this as a sign to leave him alone?

Honey you just answered ur own question, think about it if he doesnt take initiative now and he isnt even with you just shows you the type of guy you would end up with. DONT BOTHER! Guys mostly take initiative in the begining and slack off later, but if he isnt showing initiative now its a really bad sign and he probably never will. Do you really want to end up in a relationship where you have to do all the work.

If you do something to try to spark some intrest he may think you are depserate (not saying you are) and use you. Not a good plan either.

Get someone to chase you not the other way around. That will show you how motivated they are to have you.

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doesn't sound like he's interested. i wouldn't waste your time anymore and actually...next time you go out, talk to other guys...show him what he missed out on hahaha

Hmm, sounds questionable. Well, if you don't try, at least somewhat, you'll always wonder, but don't just prostrate yourself in front of him. We all like to think that the guy always takes the first initiative, but we all know that it's not always the case.

this thread is weird.

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ive done this to girls before I have to admit >< I drink a bit and get into it, and then realize suddenly that I really dont actually like the person and stop from going further and making a separation painful..more painful...I usually distance myself for a while hoping she'll get the point because its harsh saying "I dont like you any more"

If he wants something to happen, he'll contact you. I suggest forgetting about it, find someone else.

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Originally posted by Orbax ive done this to girls before I have to admit >< I drink a bit and get into it, and then realize suddenly that I really dont actually like the person and stop from going further and making a separation painful..more painful...I usually distance myself for a while hoping she'll get the point because its harsh saying "I dont like you any more" If he wants something to happen, he'll contact you. I suggest forgetting about it, find someone else.

+1

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Originally posted by Orbax ive done this to girls before I have to admit >< I drink a bit and get into it, and then realize suddenly that I really dont actually like the person and stop from going further and making a separation painful..more painful...I usually distance myself for a while hoping she'll get the point because its harsh saying "I dont like you any more" If he wants something to happen, he'll contact you. I suggest forgetting about it, find someone else.

yeah...orbax is probably right. i mean, either he isn't into you...or he is just completely retarded and awkward with women...

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Originally posted by Floorfiller yeah...orbax is probably right. i mean, either he isn't into you...or he is just completely retarded and awkward with women...

You should know from experience.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller yeah...orbax is probably right. i mean, either he isn't into you...or he is just completely retarded and awkward with women...

its a mixture of both

but like 95% not liking