So last night at my friends birthday get together, a guy i had met a couple times before had came with a girl i know and her boyfriend..
so this guy is adorable.. totally cute, hella funny and he and i have great conversations.. so last night..i started flirting with him a little more then usual and i then realized that i may kind of like this guy in a way a little more then a friend.. so here i am flirting it up.. which i have to admit i'm pretty good at... so suddenly.. he starts flirting back MAJOR and that is when i freaked out!i started rambling like an idiot.. making stupid jokes and often i had to respond to him with " ummm can you hold on a second?" and i would run into the house to get some pep-talk from two of my guy friends in the kitchen.... but man i totally couldn't do it! it was almost as though i had forgotten how to play The Game!!!
i'm freaking out about this!
i think i've lost my technique!
have you guys ever had a dry spell when it comes to the Flirting Game?? and does it last forever!?
Nikitha
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Aug-27-2005 17:33
monishb
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Registered: Mar 2002
Location: Vancouver-Toronto-Dubai-Mumbai
i've had the same problems with girls, what i did was start talking to many women at work outside etc, slowly got the hang of it, although all them are good friends
Aug-27-2005 17:37
Stingray
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Registered: Feb 2005
Location: The M-dot
Re: The Flirting Game
quote:
Originally posted by Nikitha
have you guys ever had a dry spell when it comes to the Flirting Game??
Sure!
It started when I was born and shall last till I die
Aug-27-2005 17:39
Jem_hadar
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Registered: Nov 2003
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You suck Nikki! LOOOOOOL
EDIT:
Taking off your shirt is always a good ice breaker too, girl!
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Aug-27-2005 18:01
Fir3start3r
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Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Toronto, ON, Canada
Flirting is overrated.
Just talked like a normal human being and take your cues based on how the converstation goes (or not).
If they're interested, you'll know
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Aug-27-2005 18:10
arek
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Registered: Jul 2001
Location: Toronto - North York
flirting is only good when touching is involved.. which eventually leads to rubbing.
Aug-27-2005 18:16
tha_broad
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Registered: Apr 2003
Location: Toronto
quote:
Originally posted by Fir3start3r
Flirting is overrated.
Just talked like a normal human being and take your cues based on how the converstation goes (or not).
If they're interested, you'll know
+1
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Aug-27-2005 18:22
Jayx1
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Registered: Feb 2003
Location: The Socialist People's Republic Of Canada
quote:
Originally posted by Fir3start3r
Flirting is overrated.
Just talked like a normal human being and take your cues based on how the converstation goes (or not).
If they're interested, you'll know
exactly...
either that or skip the BS and just get to it!
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Aug-27-2005 18:27
Chris Allen
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Registered: Apr 2004
Location: Calgary, Alberta
quote:
Originally posted by Jem_hadar
You suck Nikki! LOOOOOOL
EDIT:
Taking off your shirt is always a good ice breaker too, girl!
Registered: Dec 2004
Location: Mississauga, Ontario
But flirting is fun
Unless you take it too seriously and choke up and forget how to relax *ahem*
Aug-27-2005 19:00
DigiNut
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Registered: Dec 2002
Location: Toronto, Self-proclaimed Centre of the Universe
Haha, sounds just like every other girl under 25 - saying one thing and meaning another, and giving the people they like a hard time as soon as those people appear interested.
No offense, but I think that goes under the "immature" column, not the "rusty" column.
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Aug-27-2005 19:27
The Highroller
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Registered: Oct 2002
Location: Flying over the cuckoo's nest
Flirting is an awesome game. I wish I could give you advice, but everyone has their own style. You can't try to use someone else's technique, or it will look forced. My only suggestion is keep practicing. It will come back.
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