so, if you were really scared to tell a girl you love them, would you buy them a book called "The 5 Languages of Love - How to Express Heartfelt Commitement to Your Mate"?
hahah the first chapter is about keeping the love alive after marriage.
no seriously...last friday i drove to his place to pick him up (we had a movie date) and i call him when i'm outside but he wants me to come inside. so i walk in his room and there's a little giftbag on his bed with a card that says my name on it. he got me that book, along with this cute little tank top he picked out for me (picking out CLOTHES for me already?? jeesus!) and a card saying how much he missed me last week. we're just dating but we definitely are really into each other. we only see each other on weekends too.
is it safe to assume that maybe he loves me?
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man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Sep-12-2005 16:29
Danny Ocean
Throwin' Shapes
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Absinthe Party at the Fly Honey Warehouse
probably just obsessed.
Sep-12-2005 16:31
Boomer187
Spicy Hotdog
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: USA
there should be a 6 month rule on the whoel saying you love the other. I dunno bout your scenario, but usually there is a sex haze for a while, once you pop outta that and kick into real relationship mode, then you can judge how much you do or don't love the other.
how long you two been courting?
Sep-12-2005 16:32
jonze
Unicorn Farts
Registered: Feb 2004
Location: where blue skies meet the sunrise
maybe hes trying to tell you that you're bad in bed
this guy has "crazy stalker ex-boyfriend" written all over him
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pro tip: if you value your life, NEVER do anything that will place you "outside" of the jonze circle of trust.
Sep-12-2005 16:32
Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%
It's never safe to assume anything. That said either he loves you or he wants you to think he does.... are you fuckin' this guy yet? If not he is likely just trying to get some ass.
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you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
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lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Sep-12-2005 16:33
Omega_Blue
Someone Changed My Custom
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Gone
....no. no man, hell no. i believe you'd get your ass kicked for doing something like that.
Sep-12-2005 16:35
Slylee
love lockdown
Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL
lol
noooooo...he's not a stalker type. he's just really sweet and sensitive.
we met on 4th of july weekend and we've been hanging out pretty much every weekend since then, give or take a few. we've already hooked up so he's not trying to get in my pants any more
the only thing i don't like is that last night he sort of gave me a guilt trip on the phone because he "didn't get to see me as much as he wanted to". HE HAD PLANS with his friends on sat. (a co-worker's bday) and then on sunday i didn't feel like driving 35 minutes (umm gas prices!!) to miami and he didn't offer to drive up to me, so i was just like oh well..
but he basically needs to be with me A LOT and i basically told him i can't do that right now...i just got out of a relationship and i'm starting school next month...and he's in grad school anyway, so we're both really busy, but i think he might be a little needy. i have to train him a little...
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Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Sep-12-2005 16:37
medinaM5
supreme
Registered: Jan 2005
Location: Los Angeles
yeah time to crack the whip, show him whos boss in this ordeal
Sep-12-2005 16:38
Allied Nations
Make it happen cap'n
Registered: Mar 2004
Location: MTHELL
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Originally posted by Slylee
lol
noooooo...he's not a stalker type. he's just really sweet and sensitive.
we met on 4th of july weekend and we've been hanging out pretty much every weekend since then, give or take a few. we've already hooked up so he's not trying to get in my pants any more
the only thing i don't like is that last night he sort of gave me a guilt trip on the phone because he "didn't get to see me as much as he wanted to". HE HAD PLANS with his friends on sat. (a co-worker's bday) and then on sunday i didn't feel like driving 35 minutes (umm gas prices!!) to miami and he didn't offer to drive up to me, so i was just like oh well..
but he basically needs to be with me A LOT and i basically told him i can't do that right now...i just got out of a relationship and i'm starting school next month...and he's in grad school anyway, so we're both really busy, but i think he might be a little needy. i have to train him a little...
him into shape like im sure you know how...
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Sep-12-2005 16:39
Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%
Train him? Sorry Jamie but you (yes even you) can't change a man. What you would need to do is make him want to change. I say offer him anal if he can demonstrate his willingness to be less needy. If you've already taken him in your ass then offer him a 3some. If you've done that too then I'm all out of ideas.
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you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Sep-12-2005 16:42
DJ Mikey Mike
Your mum's face
Registered: Jan 2002
Location: I'm at your mums'
I don't buy a book, I get all distant and weird until she breaks up with me. Dam commitment issues.
Sep-12-2005 16:45
lücid
electric girl
Registered: Aug 2003
Location: NY
Re: Ok MEN!
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Originally posted by Slylee
hahah the first chapter is about keeping the love alive after marriage.
i'd be freaked out
i'd assume he is probably falling in love with you. what other excuse does he have for buying such a cheesy book. that's gotta be an act committed by a man blinded by the emotions of love.
him into shape like im sure you know how...
