so yeah... today was their 20th anniversary and my dad gave my mom a card and money. the card said inside that they should attend marraige counseling, but my mom says that she doesnt love him anymore, so she's not even going to bother. Basically they've spent 5 years living in the same house, but sleeping in different beds. my dad would get off work at 5 and then go to a bar till 8 or 9. whenever he is home, he spends his time in the basement alone watching tv. basically my dad is a lazy asshole who spends his time with himself, but he actually made an effort to try and turn things around, so im kinda pissed my mom wont try and go for it.....

i really dont know what to do.

It's probably your fault.

What says, "I love you and take me back" more than a card and money?

Your dad is a romantic type of guy isn't he?

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Originally posted by D-res so yeah... today was their 20th anniversary and my dad gave my mom a card and money. the card said inside that they should attend marraige counseling, but my mom says that she doesnt love him anymore, so she's not even going to bother. Basically they've spent 5 years living in the same house, but sleeping in different beds. my dad would get off work at 5 and then go to a bar till 8 or 9. whenever he is home, he spends his time in the basement alone watching tv. basically my dad is a lazy asshole who spends his time with himself, but he actually made an effort to try and turn things around, so im kinda pissed my mom wont try and go for it..... i really dont know what to do.

Bad news. How long they been together?

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Originally posted by Rodrico What says, "I love you and take me back" more than a card and money? Your dad is a romantic type of guy isn't he?

my dad is a lazy asshole like i said... oh did i forget cheap.

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Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_ Bad news. How long they been together?

it does say 20th anniversary doesnt it?

ur life is over. go to iraq and help USA

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Originally posted by D-res thanks for the nice comments

No problem. If your mother needs some extra cash after the divorce, you should remind her that prostitution is always an option.

So would you like me to come to your house and kick him in the ass and tell him how to treat his wife of 20 years, or maybe you can try it.

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Originally posted by Arbiter No problem. If your mother needs some extra cash after the divorce, you should remind her that prostitution is always an option.

ROFL, thats it, im fuckin leaving, I cant handle reading your comments anymore, your killing me here.

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Originally posted by Rodrico So would you like me to come to your house and kick him in the ass and tell him how to treat his wife of 20 years, or maybe you can try it.

actually im considering it. he always says he's stronger than me, but he's getting old and i have him in both height and weight. i can probably handle him. im sure he heard the entire conversation between my mom and i, and if he confronts me about it, i guess i will have to tell him that he did wait a tad too long.... but, yeah

Is your mom a MILF?

If so, I'll "counsel" her and get her through this

Dont worry man, same thing happen to me when i was 15 yrs old.And look at me now i turn out normal.....or did I?

Srry to hear that.....but shit happends and you will get over it eventually.

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