Hmmm... i say leave it. personally.

its just his persoanlity, youve always found him to be a little cocky anyways, so just drop it.

However i lack relevant info on either party, but ur bf is ohsodreamy so i think he coulda gotten in by himself....

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Honestly it sounds dumb and not worth it to me. If this guy's arrogant then that's the kind of thing he would say. Unless you are trying to turn him into a super nice guy, which you would never be able to do anyway, then I don't think it's even worth it. Your boyfriend shouldn't take it personally. Then again I'm quite a non-confrontational person.

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Originally posted by Slylee here's the scoop... i ....snip.... "you mean getting you IN the club?" ...snip...

Maybe your boyfriend is ugly?

my bf isn't confrontational at all either. and i really don't want to make a big stink about it, but i just wanted to sort of present it in a way like i'm asking if it's such a hassle to "get us in the club", and if so, then that's fine, he doesn't have to do us any favors. my boyfriend is super sweet and extremely genuine. he is not like any of the people down here, so i think he was sort of offended and now he feels like an ass going to his condo any more and i don't blame him.

i guess i was just embarrassed when my boyfriend told me that. i would never be a rude bitch like that to any of my friend's girlfriends. and my boyfriend isn't very familiar with such attitudes either because he's so damn nice so he was just really confused and like, "umm ok, sorry jeez". especially after we bought him a bottle of nice vodka...it's like what the fuck. i'm extremely confrontational and i just really would like to see what he says when i bring it up.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by _Nut_ Maybe your boyfriend is ugly?

uhh, that's a negative.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Slylee uhh, that's a negative.

I guess he didnt get the memo... he is like.. ohsodreamy

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Well, how close are you with this guy that got "your boyfriend" in? If you seem good friends, and have a decent relationship, its worth mentioning what that was all about. Just dont be angry and after he explains his reasons (truthful or not). Explain to him you would appreciate if he wouldn't come off that way, and if he is going to come off that way, you dont care to come over to his house or have his help to get into clubs anymore. There's definately something going on in that friends head of his.

EDIT: Either that, or he has a horrible sense of humour and it came out the wrong way. Like he meant that you would never need his help to get into any club? Taking a blind stab at this theory.

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Originally posted by Rodrico Well, how close are you with this guy that got "your boyfriend" in? If you seem good friends, and have a decent relationship, its worth mentioning what that was all about. Just dont be angry and after he explains his reasons (truthful or not). Explain to him you would appreciate if he wouldn't come off that way, and if he is going to come off that way, you dont care to come over to his house or have his help to get into clubs anymore. There's definately something going on in that friends head of his.

i'm pretty good friends with this guy. i mean pretty much every time i go to south beach, i go to his condo first for drinks and we hang out...we email each other fwds n stuff. he's definitely a good friend...that is why i feel the need to bring it up. it was completely uncalled for and somewhat disrespectful....and even though i've always known he has an arrogant side, i never would think he would act like such a little prick to my new boyfriend who is a sweetheart and very likeable...and most importantly, was JUST BEING POLITE.

i just want to say something like, "hey is it a problem for you to get my boyfriend into clubs with us or something?" and if he's like, "huh? what do u mean" then i want to say, "oh nothing because craig was sort of confused about a comment you made to him and i found it rather rude" and then tell him what he said...and see what he says. i'm not gonna like attack him or anything.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

my god jamie... you think wayyy too much...

this thread is why girls are hard to understand...

water under the bridge... shrug it off...

the guy is your friend.. give him the benifit of the doubt... and let it go,.. tell your bf the same..

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Originally posted by Zewad my god jamie... you think wayyy too much... this thread is why girls are hard to understand... water under the bridge... shrug it off... the guy is your friend.. give him the benifit of the doubt... and let it go,.. tell your bf the same..

um no. i think i'd rather give my boyfriend the benefit of the doubt over my very arrogant "friend" who i just party with on weekends.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Slylee um no. i think i'd rather give my boyfriend the benefit of the doubt over my very arrogant "friend" who i just party with on weekends.

ok,.. resume racking your brain for a solution...

it was just my 2cents...

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