no really...i would like your input


i couldn't copy/paste before this part of the convo cuz i had closed the window. but basically we were talking about a man being a stripper and/or an escort and a woman doing it. i was saying it's different for guys...

Jamie says:
but ur a dude

Moral Hazard says:
so what? it's okay for a man but not a woman......

Jamie says:
yea...double standard. i'm OK with it

Moral Hazard says:
.... that shit don't work with me
Moral Hazard says:
I don't do double standards. but then again, I don't believe in morality, which is what most double standards are based on

Jamie says:
ok, so let's say i start fucking all these guys i meet at clubs, and i'm so hot and i'm so good in bed, that all of them keep calling me. they just think i'm so fucking cool and hard to get, they're dying to hang out with me and get some more of my time.

Jamie says:
so what does that make me?

Jamie says:
a player?

Jamie says:
or a slut with intimacy issues...

Moral Hazard says:
I suppose it depends on your motivation.....

Jamie says:
let's say i pride myself on screwing as many men as i can

Moral Hazard says:
.... if you're doing it because you like sex and moreover like sex with multiple partners then it's all good and I'd say you're just being you

Moral Hazard says:
...... if you're doing it because you're looking to replace some missing love in some aspect of your life then I'd say you need to talk to someone

Moral Hazard says:
.... if you pride yourself on screwing as many men as possible then I go with player

Jamie says:
yea yea

Jamie says:
well too bad the rest of society doesn't agree

Moral Hazard says:
Hey, one of my closest friends has had nearly 100 men.... I don't hold any qualitative judgement to that

Moral Hazard says:
it is too bad

Moral Hazard says:
people have this fucked up morality regarding sex.... yes it's great in a strong loving relationship and can do a lot to further such a relationship

Jamie says:
it's a sacred thing..i dont think u should just go fucking anyone to get off

Moral Hazard says:
.... but it's also pretty good as a recreational activity

Jamie says:
it's dangerous and it complicates things

Moral Hazard says:
.... you don't look down on someone who skis at a lot of different mountains do you?

Jamie says:
but hey, if u are ok with giving your body to just anyone, then that's ur busines...and i don't mean "YOU" as in u personally...i'm saying generally speaking

Jamie says:
HAHAH u did NOT just make that comparison

Jamie says:
that was ridiculous

Moral Hazard says:
It's not dangerous and if both partys are okay with it then it doesn't complicate anything

Moral Hazard says:
why was that ridiculous....

Moral Hazard says:
.... if you don't equate sex with love then sex is just an activity that people enjoy doing

Jamie says:
i'll answer that in a minute...i have to get the mail...

Jamie says:
and think about what i want to say in response

Moral Hazard says:
I've had sex with lots of women I care nothing about just because I like the act

Moral Hazard says:
I'll wait.....

Jamie says:
skiing is an activity that doesn't involve the exchange of bodily fluids and emotions.

Moral Hazard says:
sex doesn't have to involve either of those things

Jamie says:
i'm creating a thread about this

Moral Hazard says:
otay

Moral Hazard says:
I predict the bulk of my day will be spent in that thread

Jamie says:
lol

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone