way more money than you? also their family status is really high. recently i got with a girl who has everything and anything she wanted. Either from exs or family.
How do you deal with that? i'd say im in a upper middle class family but she is just way over my status, sometimes its really hard to go out with her.
Lets say i live in a million dollar house, She lives in a 4.5 million dollar house!! Everytime we go out drinking the bill comes out over 200-300 bucks(both of us drink alot and often) Usually i have to pay all and for her friends also. Its getting way over my budget.
I wonder if anyone is in a relaitonship like me, and how do u deal with it?
Nov-28-2005 00:27
Slylee
love lockdown
Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL
that sucks, but u gotta bring it up with her in private. only way to deal with it is to let her know u love treating her and stuff, but that your budget simply cannot support all of her friends plus hers every time...just be honest about it all. obviously she's not with u for your money, so it shoudn't matter to her. she shouldn't have a problem picking up the tab if she makes/has a lot more money than you. i make more money than my bf now (he lives off student loans for now) so i'm usually picking up the tab when we go out and i don't really care.
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man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Nov-28-2005 00:33
Protege
Just like perfection
Registered: Apr 2003
Location: East Bay
You have to pay for hers and her friends drinks?
Why? Thats messed up. I would never expect the bf/gf of a friend to buy my drinks.
Also, is this a dominatrix/submissive kind of relationship?
Nov-28-2005 00:39
ahway26
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Aug 2002
Location:
Acctually its oppsite around, she always listens to me, but im just trying my best to keep up/ maintaining her status or being rich, she lives off her parents , i work*_* i guess sooner or later i'd have to tell her that i cant maintain. Kinda sad to face the fact cause im a man and i really want to give her whatever she wants maybe just not yet.
Nov-28-2005 00:44
bobba lou
you need some activator
Registered: Feb 2003
Location: Mp3s killed the black beauty
Originally posted by callme
I've always meant to ask this....who the fuck are you? I mean i have never heard of you or the 5 friends you have on your myspace. Official info : chokeonit
Nov-28-2005 00:45
Streakfury
Angrily Running Naked
Registered: Mar 2002
Location: 11th Dimension
Yeah, buying her drinks is fine, but there's no way I'd pay for all her mates drinks as well. Nobody should expect you to do that, and if she does... well, she wants a slap.
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Nov-28-2005 00:46
ahway26
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Aug 2002
Location:
We are both chinese and usually chinese dont go-dutch at all when going out and usually girls never had to pay for anything.Bad tradition/rule i guess....err..
Unlucky.
