no, not from partying...I want to party now more than ever

So my bf and I have been together for over 3 years, and living together for over 2 years. And, well, he's quite a bit older than me so the question of our future (ie. marriage) came up. To be sure we are right for each other we decided to go on a temporary 'break'.

has anyone else gone through something like this?

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Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man affected us as kids, we'd all be running around in darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening to repetitive electronic music.

so by break, does that mean you guys are allowed to see other people?

if so.......

UNLEASH!!!

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ive been on a "break" with this girl for several years now....i wonder when the "break" ends...

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srsly, what constitutes a break and is there a solid reconsiliation date? Who's idea was this?

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard srsly, what constitutes a break and is there a solid reconsiliation date? Who's idea was this?

break=a time to see other people

how long=I don't know, I guess until we are ready (perhaps a few months)

who's idea=both of ours, more him though seeing as I'm still young and have plenty of time...he's not quite as young and doesn't have as much time

LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better*

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Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man affected us as kids, we'd all be running around in darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening to repetitive electronic music.

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Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl break=a time to see other people how long=I don't know, I guess until we are ready (perhaps a few months) who's idea=both of ours, more him though seeing as I'm still young and have plenty of time...he's not quite as young and doesn't have as much time LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better*

a) I would set a definate end date on which you will meet to discuss the events of the past few months and decide your future.

b) What type of contact will the two of you maintain, if any, during this time?

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

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Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl break=a time to see other people

*Fumbles around for cell phone and quickly looks for Michelle's number*

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Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better*

noooooooooooooo


and i have been keeping a reserved sign on me for all these years?? thats it...im back out on the prowl now....


LAYDEES I IS SINGLE!!!!

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Soundcloud sampler: www.soundcloud.com/elkdee

i know of quite a few people who have done this.

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Trance in my pants

In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach.



Sandra

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Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl no, not from partying...I want to party now more than ever So my bf and I have been together for over 3 years, and living together for over 2 years. And, well, he's quite a bit older than me so the question of our future (ie. marriage) came up. To be sure we are right for each other we decided to go on a temporary 'break'. has anyone else gone through something like this?

wanna come over?

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Originally posted by Summer21 In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach. Sandra

Agreed.