it ultimately depends how much sex youre getting, maybe your friends would understand if they knew you were getting more sex than them or somehtign

but generally, friends, definately, friends before gf/bf

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do you mean like when figuring out who to hangout with one night/what party to go to, or like forever? i think you mean forever...

its kinda hard to answer, because it obviously depends on how long you've been going out, how serious it is, and of course, how much sex you're getting. i've made that decision twice in my life. the first time i chose my gf, the second time i chose my friends. i dont regret either choice, it worked out for the better each time.

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Ehh, Id have to say it depends on the situation. In some cases, you dont have to choose, you can bring both, or that how it is at least wit my boys, and muh girl. And they understand when it "Our" time and I dont want thm to be there, and if its a serious relationship, then she/he too should understand there are times when you wanna chill wit your boys/girls...Like i said, it all depends on the situation.

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well u know the saying...

"BROS BEFORE HOES"

or the gurls version

"CHICKS BEFORE DICKS"

haha a lil comedy for ya'll

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Originally posted by nyczliquid well u know the saying... "BROS BEFORE HOES" or the gurls version "CHICKS BEFORE DICKS" haha a lil comedy for ya'll

tru that!

greater chance of gettings screwed over by any girlfriend on any given day than a friend (guy or girl)...

shit, my friend's gf (now his ex) cheated on him with another guy, and they were together for like 2.5 years!!! how screwed is that?

>JM<

Definetly friends!
Like Juricimo said, more cance of getting screwed by a g/f then by a friend..

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the girlfriend that i ***HAD*** would defenately not be chosen over my friends, but one maybe would. I guess not on a day-to-day scale, but in the end, when I have to chose to be in heaven with them or her, its them. Maybe some chick would be so great that i would chose her over my friends, i have some good friends BTW. That would be love, kiddies!

Hmm, a relevation.

-Marc

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funny u brought it up... 2 mates of mine r choosing their gf over us (the friends)...

they both dont hang out with us anymore, just SOMETIMES in the weekends, when we go out (they dont really go out anymore either), and now, one of em wont even go on vacation with us anymore...

the really radical one has gone through an entire make over since hes with his gf, he dressed different (read: being 20, dressing like 40), his personality has TOTALLY changed, the guy we knew doesnt exist no more...

i think its just sad that some1 leaves his/her entire life just cuz he/she is in love...

i will never choose a girl over my friends, friends r forever, a relationship can end just like that, and where r u when u broke up while u chose for her, and not for ur friends?? thaz right, ur totally on ur own then...

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ummm, your girlfriend should be you friend also. I mean you don't always have to hang out with one or the other, why not both??

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess ummm, your girlfriend should be you friend also. I mean you don't always have to hang out with one or the other, why not both??

tr00 dat

and besides...neither my b/f, not my friendz would force me to choose!

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I've had to make this desicion before......and i ended up choosing my gf. The reason for this is because this "friend" was just using me for rides since he was too stupid to pass his driving test. sometimes i would go almost 2 weeks without seeing my gf due to work/school, and when i went to her house he'd say to my other friends "jeez, why does Danny have to go out with Suzy so often? I don't feel like staying home today!". when i found this out I just told him that i saw his ex cheating on him numerous times (which is true) and laughed at him. haven't spoken to him since, and don't want to. But at the moment i would choose neither. My true freinds understand if i want to spend time with my gf, and my gf understands that i like chilling with my friends. any1 who asks me to choose can go fuck themselves.

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