Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Upper West Side NYC
Question for the boyzz
I was just reading this magazine article in a men's magazine (sorry I was reading it, so I can't post a link) but it said that ALL men cheat, and finding one that doesn't is near to impossible.
Is this really true?
I know that a lot of men do, but I didn't think it was THAT severe of a case? Am I just naive or what?
Boys (and girls), whats your opinion on this? Is the article right or what?
btw: the article was not talking about people who cheat once or twice in their lives, it was saying that men tend to cheat on everyone they are with, regardless of if they love them or not....JESUS!
Opinions plz.....
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Mar-31-2006 03:31
FunkyCrew
Ukranian Import
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Soul Shakin'
Re: Question for the boyzz
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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
I was just reading this magazine article in a men's magazine (sorry I was reading it, so I can't post a link) but it said that ALL men cheat, and finding one that doesn't is near to impossible.
Is this really true?
I know that a lot of men do, but I didn't think it was THAT severe of a case? Am I just naive or what?
Boys (and girls), whats your opinion on this? Is the article right or what?
btw: the article was not talking about people who cheat once or twice in their lives, it was saying that men tend to cheat on everyone they are with, regardless of if they love them or not....JESUS!
Opinions plz.....
if that's true, it would suck big time...
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Mar-31-2006 03:32
Nikitha
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Registered: Mar 2005
Location: windsor, ontario
I sure hope this isn't true...
but sadly.. i can see it being so...
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Mar-31-2006 03:32
chinamon
el shit disturbo
Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Markham, ON
i never have cheated and never will
i have met women that cheated and i cut them off right on the spot
i hate cheaters
edit: people who cheat are not really in love. if the person really was in love then they are perfectly happy with who they are with and have no need to cheat.
I'd say that's completely wrong. Just another generalization.
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Mar-31-2006 03:33
Cosmic Fur
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Registered: Jan 2005
Location: Mississauga, Canada
I don't think it's true, but then again, we would need a very clear definition of "cheat" in order to argue this further. What some people would constitute as cheating, other people wouldn't.
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Mar-31-2006 03:33
neuromancer
solving the riddle
Registered: Nov 2005
Location: Toronto, Canada
well cheating may not be the proper word, but i guess that if a guy have the oportunity he goes for it.
i do know guys that have never 'cheated' on their gf tho.
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Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
I don't think it's true, but then again, we would need a very clear definition of "cheat" in order to argue this further. What some people would consiute as cheating, other people wouldn't.
I'd tend to put it like this as well...if by cheating they mean full blown physical stuff then yeah it's a huge generalization.
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Mar-31-2006 03:35
chinamon
el shit disturbo
Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Markham, ON
quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
I don't think it's true, but then again, we would need a very clear definition of "cheat" in order to argue this further. What some people would constitute as cheating, other people wouldn't.
very true.
i believe if a guy has a gf and he meets a new girl at a club and starts talking to her because he has the *intention* to hook up with her, that is already cheating.
this also goes the other way for women
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Mar-31-2006 03:37
yankeeBaby
Keepin it real....
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Upper West Side NYC
The article never clarifies but they IMPLIED that it meant WELL beyond kissing.....for instance they made a reference to "scoring."
What are you impressions of your male friends? I actually have a few males friends that cheat, and I am put in a bad spot because, I may like thier girlfriends. I want to say something, because I would want the same, but I feel like its not my place
Unfortunately I see it quite a bit, thus this article concerned me a little
*Also an important note: the new stats on HIV in US: The #1 increase in HIV cases are married women ages 40-50....because so many husbands cheat (with both men and women), and women who are unsuspecting sleep unprotected with their "seemingly" faithful men. I learned that in my grad class the other day...SCARY!!!
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Mar-31-2006 03:40
yankeeBaby
Keepin it real....
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Upper West Side NYC
*btw I am in no way counting out the fact that women cheat, because they DO, but, again, I was just referring to this alarming article, especially with all the nasty shit and STD's out there .....