I'm with a girl and we've broken up a few times. We have constant fights and well, make-up sex a lot.

The first time we broke up, I hooked up with a couple of girls. The last time we broke up (a week and a half ago), she slept with a guy (she said she still loved me.)

I have a lot of insecurities, and well, i don't trust her, yet I say I love her and don't want to let her go. She's an outgoing person, and I'm not, she has a layer of friends that go out, flirt, blah blah, and I don't. She wants different things outta me (trust) than I want out of her (love).

Should I be in a relationship?
Advice please

Please be considerate about your replies.

Thankyou

___________________
YouTube Page

[TRANCE] Beyond Paradise Mix

with all due respect Dan, surely there are better ways to get advice on relationships than by asking a bunch of relatively total strangers on a public internet forum?

___________________
Pretty Simple;
Saturdays at Ffour.

quote:

Originally posted by dan_essential Should I be in a relationship?

Are you asking wether you should be in a relationship at all, or with this person? You started off asking the latter, but ended up asking the former? Two very different questions...

___________________
picturerise.com

LOL

I'm certainly no help here!

yeah i agree with dean, this is really not a good place to get advice from. may i suggest the cor

seriously though talk to your mates

___________________
ATTORNEY: Now doctor, isn't it true that when a person dies in his sleep,
he doesn't know about it until the next morning?
WITNESS: Did you actually pass the bar exam?

quote:

Originally posted by sunrise3500 Are you asking wether you should be in a relationship at all, or with this person? You started off asking the latter, but ended up asking the former? Two very different questions...

Yeah stop loling around the bush

quote:

Originally posted by Teflon_Teapot yeah i agree with dean, this is really not a good place to get advice from. may i suggest the cor

lol
How about I just tell you to slap some sense into her and/or kill yourself and save reposting in the cor for the same answers

trust is something that takes a very long time to rebuild/regain... and if you both want different things from each other and just seem to be going around in circles, probably best you cut yourself free and enjoy single life for a bit and before you know it you'll find something awesome in a new girly

sometimes a relationship that you've tried over and over at ends up so tainted, it'll never be as squeaky clean as you want it.

just bail dude, just do it.

NIKE.

___________________
GIGS/NEXUS_09/10:
19/12_ONE SMALL STEP
16/01_NEXUS pres. BEN GOLD (UK) & Rossco
XX/03_NEXUS 2ND BDAY - Details TBA

Jed - Dark Horse [Progressive Tech Trance] (LINK)
Jed - Live @ Nexus 1st Bday [Progressive Tech Trance, Melodic Trance] (LINK))
Jed - 'Room 2 Move' [Progressive Trance, Tech Trance, Uplifting Trance] (LINK)
Jed - 'Forever' [Melodic Trance] (LINK)

quote:

Originally posted by mmkoiman trust is something that takes a very long time to rebuild/regain... and if you both want different things from each other and just seem to be going around in circles, probably best you cut yourself free and enjoy single life for a bit and before you know it you'll find something awesome in a new girly sometimes a relationship that you've tried over and over at ends up so tainted, it'll never be as squeaky clean as you want it. just bail dude, just do it. NIKE.

*gushes*

You are my hero Jed

Go here and ask.

http://www.inthemix.com.au/forum/fo....php?forumid=23

___________________
Too old for this shit. But still luvin it

poor boy.

Really no matter what advice you may get, YOU are the only one who really knows your situation the best & can decide what you think you should really do. Listen to your intuition & do what YOU think is best.

If all else fails there's always DRRRRRRR PHILLLL
www.drphil.com

Sorry mate didnt know she was your girlfriend...

___________________
Oh, life is bigger ,It's bigger than you,And you are not me,The lengths that I will go to, The distance in your eyes ,Oh no, I've said too much, I set it up

That's me in the corner, That's me in the spotlight, I'm Losing my religion, Trying to keep up with you ,And I don't know if I can do it, Oh no, I've said too much,I haven't said enough, I thought that I heard you laughing, I thought that I heard you sing, I think I thought I saw you try.

But that was just a dream, That was just a dream, But that was just a dream, Try, cry, why try? That was just a dream ,Just a dream, just a dream, Dream