Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Intergalactic Planetary
Why not?
Feb-02-2008 04:33
iammesol
Burnt out and grown up
Registered: Mar 2004
Location: Atlanta, USA
Works for me
Feb-02-2008 04:34
Spacey Orange
still loves trance.
Registered: Jul 2004
Location: California
'spose my SO wouldn't like it. it's that i fucked over some girl and i've been carrying guilt about it for years and i just learned she has a myspace account.
i didn't start the thread looking for advice, but the question just arose in me. whether it's ever a god idea.
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Intergalactic Planetary
quote:
Originally posted by Spacey Orange
'spose my SO wouldn't like it.
Who cares?
Are you still friends, so to say, with these old flames? Contacting lost friends, or people you haven't talked to in a little while is fine. If my boyfriend wants to contact his, I say by all means, go for it.
Feb-02-2008 04:36
iammesol
Burnt out and grown up
Registered: Mar 2004
Location: Atlanta, USA
Fuh realz. Old significant others are still PEOPLE. It's always important to make sure you still know them as a person, and not an object you used to date. Tell the girl how you feel, and if anyone has a problem with that, they're just frickin' crazy.
Feb-02-2008 04:38
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
Post her MySpace.
DO IT.
Feb-02-2008 04:41
Fibonacci
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Aug 2007
Location: somewhere drinking, whore-mongering, chain-smoking, and gambling - all with an in-your-face attitude
some things are better off left alone, i've learned. but i can definitely relate! thats why i try to avoid myspace.
Feb-02-2008 04:43
Gen3r4l1ty
Supreme Fatty
Registered: Jun 2007
Location: So, CA
quote:
Originally posted by Spacey Orange
'spose my SO wouldn't like it. it's that i fucked over some girl and i've been carrying guilt about it for years and i just learned she has a myspace account.
i didn't start the thread looking for advice, but the question just arose in me. whether it's ever a god idea.
I just ran into the same situation not too long ago. Found a REALLY old gf on mypsace and started chattin it up. After not too long she decides to come out and visit me! [From Chicago to LA mind you!] Not only that, but she stayed with me AND my current gf with whom I live.
Turned out being really cool though. It was neat to get to know someone that you knew as a kid, as an adult.
So I guess it can be a good thing? As long as you and your current SO are in a solid relationship with good lines of communication, it should be no issue and could end up pretty neat.
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What?
Feb-02-2008 04:44
L.E.N.
Rippin' and a Tearin'
Registered: Dec 2004
Location: Been Pullin out since '93 OCTA#9 / LATA #57
I dont call them back. Just because there was a reason we split and I know nothing has changed. Stress saver.
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Feb-02-2008 04:51
@mber
Suspended User
Registered: Dec 2007
Location: Los Angeles, Ca
Let it go....
Why dredge up old/bad memories for her?
