So I've asked all my friends and no one can answer. Im a bit desperate for some insight, its been on my mind all day.

My story:

I was in the bathroom at guv and this girl starts talking to me. After a couple minutes she says "Are you a lesbian? I thought you were but now I dont think so." So I say say no and ask why and she replies with "I saw you awhile ago and I thought you had a lesbian vibe" then she walks away.

So Im just curious what is a lesbian vibe?

I dont go out to pick up guys and I smile at both guys and girls, but I dont see what I would do to make me seem like a lesbian

And before anyone says it.... I do not look masculine in ANY way.

pics or stfu.

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that's def a first I ever hear about something like that

maybe she just took your smile the wrong way? I know a lot of guys make that mistake

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i think i know what she means by a "lesbian vibe" because i know people that give off a "gay vibe"... such as thesauce23. something about him screams "help! open this closet door and let me breathe!"

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Honestly, you'll get all your answers watching "The L-Word" on TV. Anyway, many people have 'gaydar' and know immediately that you are gay before you even know yourself. Anyway I don't know you, but my guess you'll come out within 3 years. Actually, I hope you are not a les, but Bi!

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Basically the girl that approached you thought you were a lesbian and thought you gave up a 'lesbian vibe' kinda like if you see a guy acting pretty flamboy-ish with his hands waving everywhere and you think he's gay... ask Barbina if you wanna learn more lol

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Originally posted by PressPLay Honestly, you'll get all your answers watching "The L-Word" on TV. Anyway, many people have 'gaydar' and know immediately that you are gay before you even know yourself. Anyway I don't know you, but my guess you'll come out within 3 years. Actually, I hope you are not a les, but Bi!

Haha! No question about it, I like guys. And although this might not agree with other people opinions; I do not believe in bisexuality. I think its for people who are either confused, or for girls who want to impress other boys. But thats just my thoughts, Im sure lots of others feel differently.

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Originally posted by Intangible I do not believe in bisexuality. I think its for people who are either confused, or for girls who want to impress other boys. But thats just my thoughts, Im sure lots of others feel differently.

Yeah I have always questioned the validity of bisexuality

It seems that its just a transition stage to coming out of the closet for most people

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Originally posted by Invasionmix Basically the girl that approached you thought you were a lesbian and thought you gave up a 'lesbian vibe' kinda like if you see a guy acting pretty flamboy-ish with his hands waving everywhere and you think he's gay... ask Barbina if you wanna learn more lol

Ok so my question is: What is the flamboyish version of lesbian behavious? (does that make any sense???)

What kind of behaviour does a "typical" lesbian display? The only lesbians I have ever met have always looked very masculine.

So paging Barbina.... The prettiest lesbian I have ever seen (not in person, but in picture)

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Originally posted by Intangible The only lesbians I have ever met have always looked very masculine. So paging Barbina.... The prettiest lesbian I have ever seen (not in person, but in picture)

Nah Barbina is pretty masculine lol

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Originally posted by Invasionmix Nah Barbina is pretty masculine lol

lol... Im extreme gullible and although extremely sarcastic, Im typically oblivious to other peoples sarcasm. So because Ive never met her I have no idea whether you're joking or not. lol

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Originally posted by Intangible The only lesbians I have ever met have always looked very masculine.

Guess you've never attended PRIDE week events? Anyway, generally they are classed in 2 categories:

1. Butches

2. Lipstick lessies

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Paul: Supermodels are beautiful girls, Will. A beautiful girl can make you dizzy, like you've been drinking Jack and Coke all morning. She can make you feel high full of the single greatest commodity known to man - promise. Promise of a better day. Promise of a greater hope. Promise of a new tomorrow. This particular aura can be found in the gait of a beautiful girl. In her smile, in her soul, the way she makes every rotten little thing about life seem like it's going to be okay. The supermodels, Willy? That's all they are. Bottled promise. Scenes from a brand new day. Hope dancing in stiletto heels.