bringing a guy i'm "dating" out tomorrow night partying and he is kind of fashionably challenged. and when i say "fashionably challenged" i don't mean that he looks like a total doofus. he just doesn't own any dressy casual stuff. it's all athetic type stuff.
it doesn't really bother me at all, it's actually part of his charm, but at the same time...he can't walk into a nice lounge/club w/ that type of look, so i bought him an outfit today lol.
i know it was a total girlfriend move though so i'm nervous about it. i think that he will appreciate the gesture and i'm 100% positive that i did good on the outfit. it's not over the top or anything.
now. the question is...do i just act sweet about it, like "hey i saw this and thought u would like it" and take the risk that he will think, "wtf! she is trying to be my girlfriend" or should i just somewhat come clean about my true motive and be like, "hey i noticed your wardrobe seems to consist of basketball shorts and affliction shirts, so i took the liberty of grabbing u an outfit for tonight"
lol
too bitchy?
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man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Jul-04-2008 17:24
nchs09
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Re: need some quick advice
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Originally posted by Slylee
or should i just somewhat come clean about my true motive and be like, "hey i noticed your wardrobe seems to consist of basketball shorts and affliction shirts, so i took the liberty of grabbing u an outfit for tonight"
lol
too bitchy?
Sure do that... then watch him walk away.
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Jul-04-2008 17:25
Vivid Boy
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u dont want to date so just be a bitch. everyone loves to fuck a bitch
Jul-04-2008 17:26
Slylee
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Location: Hollywood, FL
lol
well he DID laugh at himself when we were talking one night and i asked him if he owned any nice shoes and he was like "i dont know, i dont think so". he knows how he is. and he admitted that he never goes to any nice lounges/bars/clubs or anything but wants to sometime...which we are tomorrow.
and he is a total smart ass to me all the time busting my chops...so i would hope he would be able to take a comment like that.
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man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Jul-04-2008 17:29
xKaoSx
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if you want him to wear nicer stuff then buy it for him you cheap ass
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Jul-04-2008 17:32
Zewad
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Re: need some quick advice
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Originally posted by Slylee
"hey i noticed your wardrobe seems to consist of basketball shorts and affliction shirts, so i took the liberty of grabbing u an outfit for tonight"
yes.. tell him this... guys are clueless when it comes to clothes..
at least the real guys... metros are closet fags
who cares what he wears anyway. date him for his personality and not what he wears...
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Jul-04-2008 17:32
Slylee
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Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL
i am dating him for his personality. but i'm being realistic. he needs a decent outfit for where we are going tomorrow, so rather than be like, "hey um u need to buy a new outfit for tomorrow" i just got him one.
it's just a cool pair of faded (but nice) jeans with a shirt that kind of looks like an affliction shirt, but not as loud and it's not an affliction shirt lol it's "safe". i'm pretty sure he'll dig it.
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quote:
Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Jul-04-2008 17:34
Vivid Boy
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
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Originally posted by xKaoSx
if you want him to wear nicer stuff then buy it for him you cheap ass
uhh thats what she sayin bro
Jul-04-2008 17:35
Slylee
love lockdown
Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
uhh thats what she sayin bro
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quote:
Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Jul-04-2008 17:35
xKaoSx
I need more cow bell !!
Registered: Jul 2002
Location: San Diego, Ca.
eh yea my bad for not reading whole thing
lmao
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Jul-04-2008 17:36
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quote:
Originally posted by xKaoSx
if you want him to wear nicer stuff then buy it for him you cheap ass
You obviously didn't read the thread... dumbass.
I think you should tell him straight up what your motive was. That way, you don't have to worry about him thinking that you're trying to reign him in, and in turn, have him run away.
Jul-04-2008 17:36
Vivid Boy
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
i am dating him for his personality. but i'm being realistic. he needs a decent outfit for where we are going tomorrow, so rather than be like, "hey um u need to buy a new outfit for tomorrow" i just got him one.
it's just a cool pair of faded (but nice) jeans with a shirt that kind of looks like an affliction shirt, but not as loud and it's not an affliction shirt lol it's "safe". i'm pretty sure he'll dig it.
slylee.....be the bitch u are. just do it. U dont like the guy more then a fuck, so fuck him. Tell him i bought u this cause we talked earlier and i knew u had nothing and if you had something ud prolly have the wrong thing.
so here put this on and put on a smile. and shut the fuck up. please for the sake of my popularity just shut the fuck up, unless i say something to you. and that haircut....shave those fuckin sideburns, who do you think you are the rock???no! ur going to be perfect tonight, u just ahve to do as i say.
