If you're married right now or have previously been married at some point, what are your impressions of marital life? Is it generally enjoyable or generally not that great?

And if you were married but then split or got divorced, do you think you'll ever marry again?

*looks at arcadiamaxima*

lol

I have NEVER heard of a good marriage. Every one i know that is married bitches.

Not to menchion my parents got divorced, my mom remarried, got divorced again. Now my dad is getting remarried.

Fuck that jazz.

It's not worth it.

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ok i'll give a serious answer. Marriage is alot of work. I would say it is generally enjoyable. I am probably happier and more stressed then the average single person (if that makes any sense). I'm putting in alot of hard work starting a family now in hopes that it will pay off (more then it already does) later. I also think that most peoples ideas of marriage are really delusional and unrealistic. Marriage is full of good times and total bullshit, you just have to draw the line somewhere and otherwise resolve to work it out and grow from it. why are you asking about marriage?

Yeah, I don't know anyone my age who has gotten married or engaged with good results.

But my parents' marriage is very good, so I've seen both sides.

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Originally posted by wienerschnitzel why are you asking about marriage?

.just curious..

Not thinking about marrying any time soon, in case you were wondering.

i think the problem with marriage these days is people are too selfish. I think that the femminist movement has generated a "what's in it for me? and "i can do better" attitude, which isn't condusive to marriage.

Most of my friends who are now married are perfectly happy. I also know of many couples who have been married 20-30 years and are still fine.

Am I hanging out wiht a different fucking crowd to the rest of you or what?

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles .just curious..

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Originally posted by tubularbills ALT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles

you sombitch

nah, i got nothin'.

my parents lasted around 24 years. then it went down the shitter, and has been for the past two years. dad's an asshole who doesn't want to pay for anything; mom's got no money and can't work; and might end up moving in with me. blah