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Re: Re: How to catch a predator
| quote: | Originally posted by david.michael
I agree with your point to an extent. While I don't necessarily think this is the best idea:
... that doesn't necessarily mean that you should be locked up and have your life ruined. It means her dad should beat your ass and then everyone can move on.
I have a friend who is going through something like this. He was 18 and was messing around with a 14 or 15 year old. No actual intercourse; just making out, fingering, and such. Now, this was probably not a wise choice on his part (he wasn't the most mature 18 year old); however, the repercussions of this have been mind-boggling. Her pops found out and he ended up doing 6 months in prison. He has to register as a sex offender. He can almost never find jobs willing to hire him or apartments willing to accept him, because he's marked as a felon. He's 23 years old, on parole, and is always barely scraping by.
He's also a very good person. Though he has made some irresponsible choices in his past, he has a good head on his shoulders and is a morally sound person. He has a 2-year-old son (who was conceived when he was in a fairly stable, long-term relationship) whom he helps take care of and he does everything he can for him.
The fact that they lump him in the same category as serial rapists never ceases to anger me. The system is severely flawed in that respect as he is now completely unable to get his head above water, which is totally counter-productive. |
A friend of mine had a similar thing happen. He was 19 she was 17 when the "incident" happened, but the statutory bullshit never happened till AFTER she was 18, but since it happened while she was a minor he got fucked. So stupid. He was not even a ton older.
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