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Jake Benson
Supreme Vaginaddict

Registered: Nov 2005
Location: New York

Need help deciding whether to move out

[EDIT: PROBLEM SOLVED. READ PAGE 7 BETCH]

Here's where I am currently:

1 bdroom apt
$1200
walking distance to gym

Here's where I have to make a decision TODAY on whether to move into or not:
5 bedroom house (4 roommates..all are cool, have known one of them for 3 years)
$760
own bedroom, but share bathroom
not walking distance to gym

It's soooooooo cheap and all the guys are cool and they have PS2, PS3, and Xbox 360!!!! And cable!!!! And I SAVE $440 EVERY month. And there's NO pigeons making humping noises everyday waking me up at 6am.

I keep thinking I need to be social and since I work alone (music and day job) it's good to be surrounded by people at home...sorta like when I lived at the frat. I miss that aspect. But everyone tells me "you're not 21 anymore jake it won't be like college." So now I'm confused. I don't know if I want to move out because I just want to make friends, or if I want to move out because living alone isn't healthy for me.

Also if I decide to move out (which I have to decide today) I won't live in the new place until I get back from Germany and Israel...and wtf what if that changes me and I come back and think to myself "holy shit why did i move here?"

What would you do? My friends all say I'm crazy for moving out, but my friends are all introverts and I think I should start listening to what I want to do.

And anyone live in a house with multiple roomies?

I don't know what I want in life.

/mid-20s crises

Advice from someone closer to my age the better. I'm 26.

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Last edited by Jake Benson on Oct-22-2008 at 03:00

Jul-19-2008 20:54 United States

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barbina
ohme, ohmy

Registered: May 2007
Location: North Carolina

move out.
more roomies to bang.
more reasons to have parties.
you still have your own personal space.
run to the gym, twice the workout
anddddd you have more money

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bas
Stronger Lover

Registered: Jul 2004
Location: Here I Am Baby

This is a no brainer. Moving in with some friends and saving $440 a month? Are you drunk? God damn lush.

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verndogs
GET THE TANK!

Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Sports Discussion Forum - NYC

Move out and save the money.

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Jul-19-2008 21:06 Philippines

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nefardec
Tranceaddict in tranning

Registered: Oct 2004
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move out

Jul-19-2008 21:08

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Jake Benson
Supreme Vaginaddict

Registered: Nov 2005
Location: New York

Fuuuuuck everyone here says move out...you two above me what are your ages? Might help me decide. I feel like if I were younger then I SHOULD move out, but being 26 I feel like I need to "grow up" and be alone. But then again that's probably what society wants me to think I should do. So totally confused.

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Jul-19-2008 21:19 United States

verndogs
GET THE TANK!

Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Sports Discussion Forum - NYC

I'll be 27 in Sept.

As much as it's nice to have your own place, you're better off saving money and having roommates.

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Jul-19-2008 21:20 Philippines

nchs09
Traceaddict in training

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Inside your mum

roomates for financial reasons. But if you are tidy and organized i recommend moving on your own.

plus 3 roomates = 3 oportunities for you to pork one of them eh?

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Ian
Not dead yet.

Registered: Dec 2001
Location: UK

it depends what your overall motives are. If you actually plan to buy somewhere, then the 440 you'd save a month would soon add up to a nice deposit. Downside is shared bathrooms, people leaving the toilet seat covered in piss and the likes. Honestly, it's so hard to get onto the property ladder here that so many people still live with family cos mortgage deals are crippling, and renting often is in the shitty areas.

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basd
progression

Registered: Jul 2002
Location: Somewhere nowhere

Do not move out. At least I wouldn't. OK, it's quite a bit of money but that's all forgotten as soon as your roommates start to annoy (or molest) you.

Especially since you're already used to living on your own, my guess is you want that back pretty soon.

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