I just came back from the wedding of an old friend of mine, and I feel emotionally drained. This is not the first time it happens: I used to think it had something to do with churches and whatnot, but that also happens in non-religious ceremonies (like the one I attended today).
The worst I've ever had was back in 2005: One of my best friends got married in São Paulo, and I was one of the groomsmen. After the ceremony was over, I remember I sat on a bench and spent two hours straight looking at a tree on the top of a mountain, while everyone else was dancing at the party. I remember I felt ridiculously empty, and it was the first time I had ever been to a wedding on my own.
Anyone else get that?
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Dec-07-2009 02:14
tubularbills
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Re: Weddings make me miserable
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I remember I sat on a bench and spent two hours straight looking at a tree on the top of a mountain, while everyone else was dancing at the party.
no, can't say i've ever been there before dude lol
Dec-07-2009 02:15
Rose
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Someone's got the blues...
And no, sorry.
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Dec-07-2009 02:15
Sushipunk
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Yeah man, I hate weddings. The only good thing is the open bar, which I always take full advantage of, since otherwise I'd probably go mental.
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Dec-07-2009 02:16
Domesticated
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Sounds like celibacy is really working out for you.
Are you just introverted and therefore uncomfortable in large groups, especially ones where you don't know many people, or is it just weddings?
I generally dislike weddings just because they're usually all the same, and I can't understand why anyone would spend so much money on such a bad party for what is supposed to be the happiest day of their life. The few that are unique are fun though.
Dec-07-2009 02:22
Lira
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Sounds like celibacy is really working out for you.
Heh? That was the first wedding I've ever been to after my fiancée left
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Dec-07-2009 02:22
Silky Johnson
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Yeah I hate weddings...very draining for sure. Can't say they leave me feeling empty, though.
Dec-07-2009 02:26
yukii
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Instead of sitting on that bench why didn't you go dance or socialize with friends or something? if you're gona sit on a bench you might as well leave? i think weddings are nice, religious/nonreligious.. everyone seems to be happy atm.
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Dec-07-2009 02:30
Rose
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The only people I know who hate weddings are people who secretly want to find that *one* person and are envious of the people getting married or they really do hate the happiness brought upon by the wedding.
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